People come into your life for a reason,a season,or a lifetime.  When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually  to meet a need you have expressed. They come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a god send, and they are!  They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time,this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to a end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, your desire fulfilled, their work done.  The prayer you sent up has been answered., and now it is time to move on.

When people come into your life for a season, it is because... your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you a experience of peace, or make you laugh.  They may teach you something you have never done.  They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

Lifetime relationships teach you life time lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all relationships and areas of your life. 

What have you done with the knowledge you aquired?

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I try to lessen the loads of other, via sharing the knowledge that I believe I 've gained. (careful not to be demanding, only insightful). we can learn from the trials of others.......nice post

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If You Ever Wondered What Was Really Under RHOA's Kim Zolciak's Wig....

Kim Zolciak debuted her real hair on last night's episode of "Don't Be Tardy For The Wedding."   Check out what the "Real Housewives of Atlanta" star has been hiding under all that blonde wiggery inside...

 

Kim doesn't let anyone see her real hair and has proclaimed to never stop wearing wigs.  Her own stylist, Derek J, hasn't even seen her real hair in over a year.  So on last night's episode of "DBTFTW," she got balls to make the big reveal to Derek, her assistant and the rest of the world.

While trying to determine how she would style her hair for her upcoming wedding to Kroy, she decided to throw off the wig for a few minutes to show folks what she's been hiding.  Maybe it was the flu she had just come down with that caused the change up too.

And we must say, chick may want to rethink wearing these wigs because the real hair suits her best:

From this, to this:

Hopefully she tosses these wigs for good.

 

Check out a clip from last night below: 

ON THE SET: Rihanna & Her Short-Shorts Film "The End Of The World" In New Orleans

She's back on a movie set!  With her major debut movie Battlefield still in theaters, Rihanna jetted to New Orleans this week to shoot a brand new comedy called The End of the World (formerly called The Apocalypse).  And we've got pics of the hot bodied chick on the set rocking her fave look--the shortest shorts in her suitcase and a revealing crocheted top.  Pics inside...

 

The flick is starring funny folks Seth Rogen (who also wrote and is directing), Michael Cera, Jason Segel, Jonah Hill, Craig Robinson, Mindy Kaling, Aziz Ansari & Harry Potter's Emma Watson.

IMDB reports the plot as:

While attending a party at James Franco's house, Seth Rogen, Jay Baruchel and many other celebrities are faced with the apocalypse.

In the scene being shot above, Rihanna and Emma Watson are running out of co-star James Franco's house party because suddenly, of course, the end of the world happens.  All the co-stars are funny as hell, and reportedly they are all playing themselves, so this should be a good look for Rih.  And it sounds like Kevin Hart drops by for a cameo as well as Rih tweeted a couple hours ago:

Just leaving set! Kevin Hart clearly has childhood issues! Lolololol ! This has to be one of my favorite moments in life #endoftheworld

The film is set for a June 14th, 2013 release.

Pics via Splash

SPOTTED: Nas OUT & ABOUT In West Hollywood

Nasty Nas is in L.A. wrapping up his upcoming Life Is Good album (dropping 7/17).  And he was spotted out and about in West Hollywood yesterday with Capricorn Clark--Bad Boy's Marketing Exec.  We're not sure what's going on there--but we're sure they'll maintain they're friends and/or just working together.  Pics inside...

After grabbing lunch in his bright green Adidas track suit and Jordans, Nas hit the streets of West Hollywood to likely head to the studio:

It's been a big week for the sexy Mr. Jones as he dropped his brand new "Daughters" video featuring his own little girl Destiny.  And he just revealed that he will be unveiling his brand new website and upcoming tour dates tomorrow.

About the meaning of his new album's Life Is Good title, Nas told Complex magazine this month it's all about getting to a point where you master your own life, and not letting thieves and money bring you down:

I never liked dealing with money. It comes between real shit. Friendship, loyalty, and love is the real shit. Money is the other shit. I have one way of dealing with money, and then you have educated people, who know how to deal with money, and we have conflicts there. It’s like in the movie Wall Street, my man Gekko says, “Pay attention. Money’s a jealous bitch. Either you’re going to pay attention to her, or she’ll find someone else that will.” And mine has definitely found other people who appreciate her more. [Laughs.] I’ve neglected her and abused her. I let a person take her from me—and I don’t mean my ex-wife, I mean some bad business from, like, six years ago that’s affecting me now. And I take responsibility for it, because it’s my problem. But I still see that as something I have to fix, because if you don’t fix money, it’ll fix your ass.

Check out more highlights and pics from his new Complex spread HERE in case you missed it.

Pics via WENN

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