Would you give up your best friend of the opposite sex if your mate ask you too?
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Permalink Reply by Lyrical Beauty on -
I don't know. I've never been put in a situation where I was forced to choose. But I don't know if I would simply because I have some great male friends (strictly platonic) who have been here for me in my darkest hour. When all hell broke loose in my life they were the ones I could count on when I needed a shoulder to cry on. My thing is this: Relationships are built on trust and communication. If we were strictly friends before I stepped into a relationship, then my man should be able to trust me enough to know that I can still remain strictly friends with this guy. If he doesn't trust me then that's an issue within itself. But all at the same time relationships require compromise and if this was an issue that continually caused problems in my relationship, then....well I don't know exactly what I would do, but I would listen to my partner and try to work something out. Especially if this person were my husband or future husband. That's just my opinion though.
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Permalink Reply by Bam on -
No, I wouldn't give up a good friend if we were bangn or not......We might have 2 stop knockn, but I couldn't just give up that good friendship. When I was with my BM(lol;-), I told her that she could keep all the guy friends she had and could meet more as long as they knew her panties, titts an ass was not a part of the friendship. Once they realized they wasn't gonna get none, they stopped being her "friend". I can't be with anybody attempting to control my life, or make me over. I'd rather b single.
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Permalink Reply by L A Body Massage on -
It's never been an issue and never will but if it were to come up we would have to talk about the insecurities of that person.
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Permalink Reply by Shawn on -
Very interesting. I had a person who I considered my best friend. We were inseparable (until my husband came into the picture). The first time he met her, he did not get good vibes from her. He didn't tell me to stop hanging with her, but he sure didn't like her. Of course, I was like whatever, that's my girl. And as always, his wisdom/senses prevailed and she turned out not to be who I thought she was. I say this to say, if your mate makes mention about your best friend, don't just disregard. He/she may sense something or see something you do not see because you are too close.
As of right now, I barely talk to the person who was supposedly my BFF for years.
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Permalink Reply by Brooklyn's Finest on -
Naaaaaaaaaaah...I know me. I have Nothing but male friends, don't do chics at all and my male friends will be there when the man is long gone...we've been friends forever!
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Permalink Reply by mr.moody on -
I dont do 'friends', best or otherwise. I imagine though, if i did have a best friend who was there for me thru thick and thin, and i had my girl telling me to give them up, i'd get both of them together to see what the fuk was going on. If i couldnt resolve it, my girl would just have to deal with it. Im wouldnt dump fam just because my partner didnt get along with them. In any event, when you DO find a mate, u really see who ur friends truly are! Some people were just ur friends because you two were in the same boat. Many times, when we make progressions that our 'friends' dont...we see who they REALLY are. In many cases, its not who we THOUGHT they were. In that event....good riddance!
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