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Permalink Reply by mr.moody on July 19, 2009 at 7:46am

King Lamonte! WELCOME TO THE HOOD!! Looookkk maaaaannnnnn, thats some real shit right there! Any dude that gets mad at your question, is probly guilty of the topic! lol!!!!! I dont know if its the average dude, but ur right, a lot of guys think its cool to send wifey to work while they get they hang out! nuckas will stay out all night, wit they homies, come home drunk, sleep till 1pm,get up, play that sony playstation(cmon ya'll..everybody knows that shiftless niggas LOVE playing ps3 @1 in the afternoon during weekdays) Its too many cats, like you said..that wanna play the 'greasy street nigga', and ball out of control, be in them streets risking it all, and have a poor young queen stuck with everything from bills to childcare, to cooking, to EVERYTHING. And guess what? if junior sees daddy as a derelict who is always shucking and jiving and never setting goals...WHAT IN THE HELL DO WE THINK JUNIOR IS GONNA DO WHEN HE GETS OLDER!! In the end tho'...my wife always says somthing about people who tolerate a certaion behavior from somebody,. she says "IF U LIKE IT, I LOVE IT!"...so if a sister likes a no ambition having, street lurking, ps3 playing, club hopping, wanna be dope dealer.............so be it. Just dont ask me for no bail money!!!!!!

Welcome to the hood, king.....

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Permalink Reply by Ms. Musiq on July 20, 2009 at 12:42pm

I agree that there are too many men that are doing this kind of foul shit, but there's one catch. They're only doing it because it's being accepted in the household. As soon as these women in question say "hell no, get your ass up and handle business the legit way", one of two things will happen: a) he'll get up off his lazy ass and help support the family or b) he'll get ghost because he's a punk ass muthafucka whose afraid of responsibility and she doesn't need him anyway.

In either case, where there's a lazy man not doing anything productive for his household, there's a woman that's allowing it. She needs to decide if she's just going to keep taking it.. That's a bad situation to be in and I'm going to use that old cliche' and say "I can do bad by my damn self".!!

Much Love,
Ms.Musiq

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Permalink Reply by mr.moody on July 20, 2009 at 3:42pm

thats some real talk right there, Queen musiq...thats some real shit....

Ms. Musiq said:

I agree that there are too many men that are doing this kind of foul shit, but there's one catch. They're only doing it because it's being accepted in the household. As soon as these women in question say "hell no, get your ass up and handle business the legit way", one of two things will happen: a) he'll get up off his lazy ass and help support the family or b) he'll get ghost because he's a punk ass muthafucka whose afraid of responsibility and she doesn't need him anyway.

In either case, where there's a lazy man not doing anything productive for his household, there's a woman that's allowing it. She needs to decide if she's just going to keep taking it.. That's a bad situation to be in and I'm going to use that old cliche' and say "I can do bad by my damn self".!!

Much Love,
Ms.Musiq

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Permalink Reply by Bam on July 21, 2009 at 1:20am

Lets face it a lot of black men have been tought not 2b thinkers, but doers. They end up doing what their lack of thought tells them 2 do. But it is what u made it. If u ont want no street life fake committment 4 a relationship,than leave the street thug, noncommittal, fake ass Nigs alone. I live alone, & aint no way on earth will i invite any1 2 come & live with me, increase my expenses( lights, smoke, food, drink, smoke) taken up bedspace, tv time etc...) & she dont contribute. And if shes wealthy she still cant b lazy, get up & get out, go do something...go 2 the gym, go shop, clean something.......Its simple really, take care of urself, Ur partner(if any) & ur surroundings. N short, ladies , stop puttn up wit da BULL.. or stay full of BULL

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