Why did/didn't you get married?
I was pondering this the other day. I had three thoughts.......
- I got married for deep companionship.
-Marriage is an opportunity for two individuals to compliment each other so that together we would become a strong "US"
-It's he and I against the world! (To make it better)
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Permalink Reply by PrincefromQueens on -
My answer: cause I thought I knew what I was doing....WE were too young and then we grew into different people... we're still friends though.....so far.....lol, best part about the friendship now is that all the shit that would annoy the f^%$ outta me, I can ignore it or simply say "Um, I gotta go...I'll talk to you later"......HOLLA!
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Permalink Reply by Miss New York on -
Why didn't I get married...several reasons:1) Haven't met my supposed "soulmate" yet (better yet...does that person even exist????), 2) It's not a major priority for me, 3) the divorce rate in this country is SKY HIGH, so why should I go through with planning a wedding when it's only going to crash and burn at some point, 4) Why marry someone I'll love with all my heart on Monday then end up hating their guts on Friday. Bottom line, I guess I'm just not interest in being Mrs. Anybody. I'd rather be single and have my peace of mind, then be married and miserable. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't...oh well!
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Permalink Reply by Jewess on -
What did you think you were doing? What is your perspective on marriage now?
PrincefromQueens said:My answer: cause I thought I knew what I was doing....WE were too young and then we grew into different people... we're still friends though.....so far.....lol, best part about the friendship now is that all the shit that would annoy the f^%$ outta me, I can ignore it or simply say "Um, I gotta go...I'll talk to you later"......HOLLA!
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Permalink Reply by PrincefromQueens on
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Thought I was doing some mature shit n settling down....obviously too fast at that time.... I dont despise marriage. It's a beautiful thing when two people match up well and can build a future together. I would do it again....now that I have a better understanding of who I am and what I like....again, I was young and didnt know I had more growing to do.....and truthfully, after the "WAR" (lol) I'm still growing but just in different ways. There's always more to learn in life....
Sooooooo, if you have knowledge of any rich older women who wanna spoil me and do everything I say, then please email me the info, my current lady will just have to understand.......lmao (these is just jokes people, just jokes! this cyber shit will get you killed if you aint careful! LOL)
Jewess said:What did you think you were doing? What is your perspective on marriage now?
PrincefromQueens said:My answer: cause I thought I knew what I was doing....WE were too young and then we grew into different people... we're still friends though.....so far.....lol, best part about the friendship now is that all the shit that would annoy the f^%$ outta me, I can ignore it or simply say "Um, I gotta go...I'll talk to you later"......HOLLA!
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Permalink Reply by LatinTemptress on -
LOL!
PrincefromQueens said:Thought I was doing some mature shit n settling down....obviously too fast at that time.... I dont despise marriage. It's a beautiful thing when two people match up well and can build a future together. I would do it again....now that I have a better understanding of who I am and what I like....again, I was young and didnt know I had more growing to do.....and truthfully, after the "WAR" (lol) I'm still growing but just in different ways. There's always more to learn in life....
Sooooooo, if you have knowledge of any rich older women who wanna spoil me and do everything I say, then please email me the info, my current lady will just have to understand.......lmao (these is just jokes people, just jokes! this cyber shit will get you killed if you aint careful! LOL)
Jewess said:What did you think you were doing? What is your perspective on marriage now?
PrincefromQueens said:My answer: cause I thought I knew what I was doing....WE were too young and then we grew into different people... we're still friends though.....so far.....lol, best part about the friendship now is that all the shit that would annoy the f^%$ outta me, I can ignore it or simply say "Um, I gotta go...I'll talk to you later"......HOLLA!
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Permalink Reply by Bam on -
I've came across "The marring type" quite a few time n my day; however I wasn't ready 4 that then.
Now that I am more ready, that type has become less clear.....So u say, Y didn't I?.....Well, I say, my time has not yet come.
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Permalink Reply by MsConfident on -
IM THINKIN I MUST HAVE BEEN A DAMN FOOL...KNOWING WHAT I KNOW NOW....BUT WE LIVE AND WE LEARN...WELL SOME OF US...IN MOST CASES I LEARNED FROM IT AND PROLLY WILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN
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Permalink Reply by Jewess on
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What qualities would a soulmate have? (not sure I really understand the concept of soulmate)
Miss New York said:Why didn't I get married...several reasons:1) Haven't met my supposed "soulmate" yet (better yet...does that person even exist????), 2) It's not a major priority for me, 3) the divorce rate in this country is SKY HIGH, so why should I go through with planning a wedding when it's only going to crash and burn at some point, 4) Why marry someone I'll love with all my heart on Monday then end up hating their guts on Friday. Bottom line, I guess I'm just not interest in being Mrs. Anybody. I'd rather be single and have my peace of mind, then be married and miserable. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't...oh well!
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Permalink Reply by Jewess on
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What did you think marriage was? What did you learn from it? What happened that made marriage seem so foolish and not worth doing again?
MsConfident said:IM THINKIN I MUST HAVE BEEN A DAMN FOOL...KNOWING WHAT I KNOW NOW....BUT WE LIVE AND WE LEARN...WELL SOME OF US...IN MOST CASES I LEARNED FROM IT AND PROLLY WILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN
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Permalink Reply by Jewess on
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What is the marrying type? What's "ready" for marriage?
Bam said:I've came across "The marring type" quite a few time n my day; however I wasn't ready 4 that then.
Now that I am more ready, that type has become less clear.....So u say, Y didn't I?.....Well, I say, my time has not yet come.
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Permalink Reply by Bam on
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The Marrying Type= Some1 that u wouldn't mind spending the rest of ur life with.
Ready for Marriage= Bn with that 1 person, & that 1 person alone!!!
(n no way do these opinions reflect that of the NDN Family Network, these beliefs & opinions are the sole thoughts of ur truly .........BAM)........ thank you for ur X, good day & God bless
Jewess said:What is the marrying type? What's "ready" for marriage?
Bam said:I've came across "The marring type" quite a few time n my day; however I wasn't ready 4 that then.
Now that I am more ready, that type has become less clear.....So u say, Y didn't I?.....Well, I say, my time has not yet come.
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