Why Am "I" Still Single & Who Is The Better Cheater a Man or a Woman????
I was chatting on the facebook place earlier today with a dear blog friend of mine and we got to talking about the Question..."Why are we still Single?" as well as talking about who is the better cheater in a relationship.....Is it a man or a woman?
So this forum post will be kind of a two part forum where I briefly discuss both of them?
"Why am I still Single?"
When we got to talking I basically told her that sometimes we don't know those answers until it is lit up right in front of our faces and those closest to us can only be seen through the thickets darkest cloud as to the bright and shining star of a person that they have been to us when the chips mattered?
Do you as a man or a woman take the risk and ruin a pretty good friendship relationship whether or not there is some distance between the both of you or do you just maintain the friendship you have solidified right now in your life even though you may want and desire a relationship that is very sustainable and long lasting because I myself never believed in getting a divorce from my ex-wife as she wanted it and I never thought about breaking up with my ex-girlfriend because she did this twice during my last relationship I most recently had?
Now the other question that we talked about was about who was the better cheater a man or a woman?
I told her that I feel that women are the better cheaters in a relationship because Well then you ladies get all CSI on us men with the hair color that's not yours and a mistake like leaving underwear in not so conspicuous places!
Women assume they are smarter than men and attribute this to them being far better cheaters than men. It seems far fetched to be proud of being a better liar, deceiver and sexual deviant, but for so many women this is their reality! What has changed women’s attitude so drastically to cause them to indulge so heavily in cheating? There are many excuses, but we are sure one constant will remain prevalent, “Men”. Base on this reason, are women just as immature as men are simply because of the immature and unfaithful actions of a select few men and women out there? It is extremely hard to get to the bottom of why individuals cheat, but there is a clear difference in the reasons men and women cheat.
Many look for love elsewhere out of feelings of neglect, either be it physical or emotional?
If sex becomes, well, kind of boring and predictable, women may wander away to find someone else who can spice things up and we men just want to f*ck the next woman we have a chance to if we're in a relationship and can get away with it!
Feeling emotionally undervalued or just flat-out ignored can also lead to infidelity.
Can anyone spell out just a few reasons from your own personal experiences when you were the cheater and how you got away with it or the person who was cheated on and why you didn't find out until it was too late?
It has often been said that even within the government......you know the CIA doesn't have NOTHING on a woman with a PLAN and her gut feelings or natural born instinct in knowing when their man cheats....lol!!!
What do ya think FAM?
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Permalink Reply by Miss New York on -
O...M...G!!! George, I just read this and I'm at a loss right now!!!! Let me get back to you with a response...:-).
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Permalink Reply by LoveNLust on -
Women are far more better cheaters than men! Men give themselves away so easily, women are the master of manipulation. A woman can cheat for months or years and you wont even know it.
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Permalink Reply by Miss New York on
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I personally believe that it's 50/50...men and women are both equal, but it depends on who's sloppy about it and gets caught FIRST and most of the time.
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