When is it Ok to give up the Goods
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Permalink Reply by Fembeauty on -
Aaaahhhjh haaaaa, I saw that last comment Dee...lol
I say wait awhile before giving up the goods- as we all know at this point PEOPLE WEAR FALSE FACES sometimes- gotta be sure. Things are always love in the beginning. It's that AFTER HONEYMOON stage you should worry about. I know of someone who was feeling a guy and decided to allow him to "sample" her goods. The way she told it, he was all that and then some but two months and every last orifice later- he was out of her life. I'm not gonna say it was his fault because she's not the kind that you want to introduce to your family (he didn't know that) all I'm saying is that they gave up the goods and had nothing to show for it.
Now, if you already had a relationship before the first date- that's another story ;o)
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Permalink Reply by PrincefromQueens on -
the right time is......right after I say, Hello my name is___________.....LOL
Just playing......that all depends on the people and the situations involved. But waiting (or trying to) USUALLY directs the dude to have more respect for you later....USUALLY....as for me, I'll have respect for you no matter when you give it up....and I'll respectfully be back for more if its good....
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Permalink Reply by Fembeauty on
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ROTFLMBO @ gimme booty after "hello my name is_______"
PrincefromQueens said:the right time is......right after I say, Hello my name is___________.....LOL
Just playing......that all depends on the people and the situations involved. But waiting (or trying to) USUALLY directs the dude to have more respect for you later....USUALLY....as for me, I'll have respect for you no matter when you give it up....and I'll respectfully be back for more if its good....
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Permalink Reply by Bam on -
Wait!!!....Wait.... wait, at least until the 4th date. & don't be in a rush to take it to the head. At the risk of being judgementive, & perhaps a bit rude (with thoughts of sleezy)......"I don't want it if it's too easy"........But if I partake anyway(being greedy) it prolly wont end up being any thing more than sex, & the truth is, if it aint banging...... I'll prolly be mad at myself for being greedy( & at you for being easy). But in the end.......I am Rover
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Permalink Reply by Lac on -
What up people? Been busy. I think once a man and a woman have an understanding with one another, there is no time frame. A woman can wait 3-6 mos before giving it up and as soon as she does he can be out. Guys can plot the same way from day 1 the same way they can and will on day 120. Having a heart to heart understanding and connection and that moment can be any time.
I've had some that gave the goods the first week and they were the women of my life. I've also had those that waited 6 months or more and it wasn't a connection there. Thats just me though.
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Permalink Reply by Miz D! of Juice Radio on -
Ahhhh, what a good, debatable question. Well, first off you dont have to be a "church girl" to wait for sex. There are plenty of "church girls" who are letting some random dude sample their "good good". I would say, the best thing is to wait. Get to know each other, get to know each other's spirit, energy, mind and emotional state. Sex is much more fulfilling and intimate between two people you have made a mental and spiritual connection vs. you meeting some random dude in the club and he gets to lay up with you on the first date. In my opinion, more times than not, the thrill is gone, the dude is no longer excited by you and there is no "chase". Really, can you trust a man or woman who sleeps with someone on the first date? That show comprised self worth and self respect, where is the discreetion? Coming from a woman's perspective, women should be careful of who they allow to enter their body. It is not just the fear of STD's or unplanned pregnancy, but you don't know waht type of spirit or energy this man will leave on you after he nutts! He might be a "woman" hater or an abusive man.
Basically, for both men and women, I would say just wait. That is my 2 cents!!!!
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