What Did You Learn From Your Very First Sexual Experience??

What was the first time having sex like for you?

I believe that for most of us we had it all planned out how things were going to go with that one special girl or guy?

Losing your virginity as it may seem where you made plans that involve unbridled lust and passion in a most special kind of way!

But many of us end up losing their virginity in a spontaneous manner where you have no control over when or how it happens......and for most folks your very first time usually ended up not at all what you envisioned it to be or feel like making what was a monumental right of passage into something that turned out simply terrifying!

 
 
Looking back at my very first time having sex wasn’t anything like I had imagined. You see my friends I had always visualized playing the most sexiest love song that was out at that time getting not only the girl I was with my myself in the mood to ease the nervousness that both of us was feeling!

Until that climatic finish of ejaculating for the first time and experiencing what that true sensation felt like ushered in brand new era of manhood for me with all of those early imperfections of the whole process trying to get it just right?

Looking back on it all I don't think that there was nothing too romantic or sexy about the whole thing with all the worrying....what if's relating to the condom and whether or not there was a tiny whole that the manufacturer let slide by when they were making the condom, what if.....what if.....Did I wait all these years for this (disappointment)?

From that imperfect incident, I learned one thing: When it comes to sex, striving for perfection and obsessing over small flaws can make you lose sight of the big picture which was you as an individual enjoying the whole experience. You have to momentarily relax and savor the experience. I learned that much as I had choreographed the whole thing, being in sync with the other person is what matters most.......not the sexy, silky sheets and rose petals I had visualized for years on end during my adolescent years!

What did your first sexual experience teach you about sex?


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Permalink Reply by Miss New York on June 16, 2010 at 1:53pm
I learned that it wasn't as big a deal as all my friends back in hs had made it out to be. Granted, my world changed after the fact and I was then considered "experienced", but as far as feeling any different, I didn't. Once I became more "experineceed", I learned to either take it or leave it.
Permalink Reply by Fembeauty on June 16, 2010 at 2:01pm
I learned to laugh :o)
Permalink Reply by Bam on August 25, 2010 at 1:57am
My first sexual experience taught me that I wanted to repeat the act for the rest of my life!!!
Permalink Reply by Lyrical Beauty on September 7, 2010 at 2:37pm
My first time taught me that some men don't know what the hell they're doing. LOL!!!!
Permalink Reply by Jewess on September 11, 2010 at 5:23am
I learned that sex is more than just an injection.

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