Testosterone, Pheromones and Estrogen: Is There Such A Thing As Sexual Attraction Really??

I was reading a blog from a good friend on mine on another site in ladydi66xx and thought to myself what an interesting topic that she chose to talk about? I wonder what some of you on this site think about it so here is her blog post entitled...."Testosterone, Pheromones and

Testosterone, Pheromones and Estrogen

Funny title for something commonly known to us human beings as being "horny".

Well, testosterone is more prominent in men, 10 times more but women have a certain level of it also. We are more sensitive to it, which is probably one reason our bodies react to virile, masculine men.

Pheromones,.... some would say that there are no definitive answers if in fact pheromones play a role between men and women. I say they do, it's simply that we have diminished our olfactory sensory neurons throughout time. Some men think I'm bizarre when I want to smell their armpits after having sex, just nuzzling and cuddling after sex.Well, to me, there is a scent that emanates and it can create an attraction of a sexual nature between men and women.

Estrogen levels in females... ahhh ! yes, the estrogen, the female sexual hormones, the one that tells you that we are ready to procreate (don't you like that word) lol...

So, when I think of all these terms, words that we use, basically in laymen's terms, there is definitely a thing called sexual attraction between men and women. It's not always based on looks or personality but can also be the way we smell, at different times of the month.

Women  have a stronger scent during ovulation or when they're on their period. Men have moments in the month where their libidos are very high and I've concluded, according to my personal experiences that when there is a full moon, men and women also crave sex more (that is, if you're
already in tune with your sexuality or enjoy it on a regular basis).

All of those things are great, but what about the mind???

what about that connection you make with someone, that person who can excite your
mind and your p***y at the same time? Why do we vibe better with some and not with others?

Is it really about the "d**k" or the person?

you tell me

So my thought is this folks....

What do you think folks..is there really a difference between the sexes to
the point where we are all kind of superficial in some way where we tend
to care more about a man's cock size or a female's large breast or how
good her p***y is...instead of what that individual has on the inner
being of themselves?

Just curious to see what kind of responses some of you will have to this topic?

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Pheremones. I believe in their power. I believe we humans smell each other all day everyday. Some of us are drawn to folk and some of us are repelled by folk. We smell same as well as opposite sex. Not to get too deep- I'm simply saying that yes, i believe that pheremones exist and oh yeah, some of them turn me on-not to take away from the physical- but beyond that. Ever met that person that wasn't that hot but you were attracted to them? Men, aren't you all always breathing in your woman? Pheremones right? Hows about that person that you are so into that you literally sniff the hairs off thier body while you are having relations? Pheremones? I'm thinking yeah.
it all depends on how we meet. If I can c her first, I will kno if I am attracted to her body. If I talk 2 her first(phone, text,email.......) then I check out her mind, her style her conversation, & I can b attracted that way as well. Either way when we r close, I can b turned off by her smell or extreemly turn on(depending on the smell). If we go as far as sex, u'd best believe Im taking n a nose full of her with every breath. & if Im really feeling her flavor, imma give it a few days b4 I wash my sheets(like3/4)just 2 get that lingering blessing of her essence. Yea, im with u FemB.......Pheremones?.....me tinks,, yes!!!




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SPOTTED: Nicole Murphy Hits Miami Beach With Mystery Guy

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Nicole Murphy is spending her Labor Day weekend on the beach in Miami. And she brought along a mystery guy to keep her company. See their candids inside….

Seems “Hollywood Exes” star Nicole Murphy is keeping occupied since her public break-up with ex-fiancé Michael Strahan last month. She was spotted in a flowy black cover-up as she and a mystery man made their way towards the beach in Miami.

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As the new face of wine company Destiny Moscato, the reality star and her guy friend were both rocking the company's merchandise.

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Earlier this month, Nicole and her ex-Michael were spotted arm-in-arm leaving South Beverly Grill in Beverly Hills. Hmmm…reuniting perhaps? Maybe…maybe not…because a few weeks before her lunch date with Michael, she was caught by the paps snuggling up with ex-NBA star Jim Jackson in the Caribbean.

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Guess a chick is just having fun.

And while soaking up some sun, she decided to accept the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge, nominating her “Hollywood Exes” cast mates. As you can see, her mystery guy did the honor of soaking her with ice water:


Photos: Pacific Coast News/Nicole's IG

Kid Cudi PASSES OUT While SIGNING Fan's Autograph At The North Coast Music Festival In Chicago (VIDEO)

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Kid Cudi collapsed during his headlining set at the North Coast Music festival in Chicago over the weekend and we have video. Watch it inside...

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On Saturday, “Pursuit of Happiness" rapper Kid Cudi  passed out while signing an autograph for a fan during his North Coast Music Festival show in Chicago.

A newly released video shows Kid Cudi signing an autograph before passing out and being carrying by several security guards.  After he recovered, Kid Cudi tweeted his followers that he had not been eating properly...

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We're glad he's ok.



Photos via Kid Cudi's Instagram

MORE PICS: Dwyane Wade x Gabrielle Union Family Photo + Extra Guests Pics At #WadeUnion

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More pics of the #WadeUnion have leaked. And they include a super cute family photo of Dwyane Wade, Gabrielle Union, sons Zaire and Zion and nephew Dahveon. Plus, extra photos of some of the attendees when you go inside…

Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade made it official on Saturday at moated castle Chateau Artisan, which came with many confidentiality agreements to be signed by guests. But the couple has been sharing their own personal bits and pieces with fans from their special day.

D. Wade shared a beautiful photo of his blushing bride, his sons Zaire & Zion and nephew Dahveon moments after their nuptials. Loving the kiddies’ black trimmed white jackets and bow ties!

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After sharing a fitting photo with her dress designer, the picture perfect bride let her hair down in her second look of the night. She was flawless in yet another custom Dennis Basso for Kleinfeld dress. And she shared her special moment with the caption, “Thank you thank you thank you @DennisBasso for helping me design THE most perfect gowns for the most special night of my life... So grateful... So happy”

Other friends who snapped pics before the ceremony:

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L.A. Clippers point guard Chris Paul and his wife Jada looked nice in their white and black, requested by the bride.

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Newlyweds Dorell Wright and his wife Mia, in a sexy strapless white jumpsuit, were in attendance.

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Miami Heat baller Udonis Haslem and his wife Faith came out for the wedding.

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A.J. Johnson served up some sexy in a white backless gown. Werk!

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“Love in the City” star Chenoa Maxwell kept it elegant in a white flowy dress.

Although no pictures of LeBron James and Savannah at the wedding have surfaced (yet), our source confirms they were both there. Common, Teddy Riley and ESPN host Stephen A. Smith were also in attendance.

Speaking of Teddy Riley…

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90s R&B group Guy reunited to perform some of their hits during the reception.

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And guests were treated to parting keepsakes complete with mini red velvet and chocolate cakes, a little moonshine, umbrellas, bow ties and a church fan. It mimicked a scene from the film The Color Purple. A choir sang a song from the movie, “God Is Trying To Tell You Something” as they walked into the reception. Nice!


Photos: Dorrell’s IG/AJ’s IG/Gabby’s IG/Chenoa’s IG/Chris’ IG/Faith’s IG/@jai_brady/@ccladycop

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