Testosterone, Pheromones and Estrogen: Is There Such A Thing As Sexual Attraction Really??



I was reading a blog from a good friend on mine on another site in ladydi66xx and thought to myself what an interesting topic that she chose to talk about? I wonder what some of you on this site think about it so here is her blog post entitled...."Testosterone, Pheromones and
Estrogen."



Testosterone, Pheromones and Estrogen


Funny title for something commonly known to us human beings as being "horny".

Well, testosterone is more prominent in men, 10 times more but women have a certain level of it also. We are more sensitive to it, which is probably one reason our bodies react to virile, masculine men.

Pheromones,.... some would say that there are no definitive answers if in fact pheromones play a role between men and women. I say they do, it's simply that we have diminished our olfactory sensory neurons throughout time. Some men think I'm bizarre when I want to smell their armpits after having sex, just nuzzling and cuddling after sex.Well, to me, there is a scent that emanates and it can create an attraction of a sexual nature between men and women.

Estrogen levels in females... ahhh ! yes, the estrogen, the female sexual hormones, the one that tells you that we are ready to procreate (don't you like that word) lol...

So, when I think of all these terms, words that we use, basically in laymen's terms, there is definitely a thing called sexual attraction between men and women. It's not always based on looks or personality but can also be the way we smell, at different times of the month.

Women  have a stronger scent during ovulation or when they're on their period. Men have moments in the month where their libidos are very high and I've concluded, according to my personal experiences that when there is a full moon, men and women also crave sex more (that is, if you're
already in tune with your sexuality or enjoy it on a regular basis).

All of those things are great, but what about the mind???

what about that connection you make with someone, that person who can excite your
mind and your p***y at the same time? Why do we vibe better with some and not with others?

Is it really about the "d**k" or the person?

you tell me


So my thought is this folks....


What do you think folks..is there really a difference between the sexes to
the point where we are all kind of superficial in some way where we tend
to care more about a man's cock size or a female's large breast or how
good her p***y is...instead of what that individual has on the inner
being of themselves?



Just curious to see what kind of responses some of you will have to this topic?

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Pheremones. I believe in their power. I believe we humans smell each other all day everyday. Some of us are drawn to folk and some of us are repelled by folk. We smell same as well as opposite sex. Not to get too deep- I'm simply saying that yes, i believe that pheremones exist and oh yeah, some of them turn me on-not to take away from the physical- but beyond that. Ever met that person that wasn't that hot but you were attracted to them? Men, aren't you all always breathing in your woman? Pheremones right? Hows about that person that you are so into that you literally sniff the hairs off thier body while you are having relations? Pheremones? I'm thinking yeah.
it all depends on how we meet. If I can c her first, I will kno if I am attracted to her body. If I talk 2 her first(phone, text,email.......) then I check out her mind, her style her conversation, & I can b attracted that way as well. Either way when we r close, I can b turned off by her smell or extreemly turn on(depending on the smell). If we go as far as sex, u'd best believe Im taking n a nose full of her with every breath. & if Im really feeling her flavor, imma give it a few days b4 I wash my sheets(like3/4)just 2 get that lingering blessing of her essence. Yea, im with u FemB.......Pheremones?.....me tinks,, yes!!!

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[UPDATED] BREAKING: Bobbi Kristina Brown Found UNRESPONSIVE In Bathtub, Taken ALIVE To Hospital

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21-Year-Old Bobbi Kristina (Brown) Houston Gordon was found unresponsive in a bathtub in her Roswell, Georgia home.  All details inside...

[UPDATE: 8:30p ET -- Sources state Bobbi Kristina has been put into a medically induced coma due to brain swelling.]

 

In somber breaking news, Bobbi Kristina Brown has been rushed to the hospital after being found unresponsive in a bathtub in her Georgia home (pictured today below).

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Roswell police report that she was missing for several hours, and was found by her husband, Nick Gordon, and a friend.  The two performed CPR on Bobbi Kristina until rescue workers arrived.

The Roswell Police Department stated an hour ago:

Police are on the scene of a rescue call at the home of Bobbi Kristina Brown, daughter of Whitney Houston. Her husband and a friend located her in a bath tub this morning and she was unresponsive. He started CPR and a police officer took over life-saving measures until an ambulance arrived. She was transported to the hospital. Please keep her and the family in your thoughts and prayers.

The Associated Press confirms that she was, in fact, taken ALIVE to the hospital.  And she is currently breathing.

Her last post on social media was just 10 hours ago, and she posted the below:

 

 

YAYYYY :) finally my famBAM!!! @dmannnnnnn

A photo posted by Bobbi Kristina Houston'Gordon (@realbkristinahg) on Jan 31, 2015 at 12:11am PST

 

The similar situation surrounding her mother's death has indeed caused even more concern.  Whitney Houston was found unresponsive, and then was declared dead, after being found in the bathtub of her room at the Beverly Hilton Hotel.  Her death occurred around this time three years ago, February 11th.

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Bobbi Kris' family, especially her grandmother Cissy Houston and her aunt Pat Houston, have been vocally concerned about Bobbi's well being after Whitney's death.  And there has been a family rift since Bobbi married Nick Gordon (above) without her family's approval.

Bobbi Kristina turns 22 in two months (March 4th).

We'll keep you updated on all developments.

 

Photos: Bobbi Kris' IG/Roswell Police Department

PRE-SUPER BOWL PARTIES: Nicki Minaj ROCKS The Stage At Bud Light House Of Whatever + J. Cole PERFORMS At ESPN The Party

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Before the Super Bowl kicks off tomorrow evening, the YBF stars were out to party and perform in Arizona last night. Peep the pics of Nicki Minaj hitting the stage at the Bud Light House of Whatever concert and J. Cole rocking the stage at ESPN The Party inside…

Super Bowl XLIX weekend is in full effect in Arizona before the Seahawks go head-to-head against the New Englad Patriots on Sunday. And last night, the party scene was buzzing with performances from Nicki Minaj and J. Cole.

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The “ONLY” raptress slipped into a laser cut one-piece before hitting the stage at the Bud Light House of Whatever pre-Super Bowl party to rock out to some of her hits.

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And during her set, Nicki took a moment to get a few things off of her chest and it seems she may have been referring to her ex-boyfriend Safaree Samuels. She said, "Motherf*ckas get where they going and then they wanna leave yo ass when they get there. About Motherf*ckas that don't know how to appreciate a motherf*cking good thing until it's gone." Bloop!

Check it:

 

 

A video posted by Jae Ink (@jaeinkk) on Jan 31, 2015 at 7:04am PST

Well alright.

Before hitting the stage....

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Nick sat down with news anchor Craig Melvin for an interview which she captioned, "Craig Melvin interviewed me for the Today Show. Airing tmrw. He's dope".

Peep another clip from Nicki's performance below:

 

A video posted by Kaiser (@skymile88) on Jan 30, 2015 at 11:14pm PST

 

And after her set, she got silly with a few of her friends backstage:

 

A video posted by Nicki Minaj (@nickiminaj) on Jan 31, 2015 at 12:38am PST

Elsewhere.....

 

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Roc Nation rapper J. Cole was tapped to perform ESPN The Party at WestWorld of Scottsdale last night. But before he hit the stage, he snapped it up on the carpet decked out in a Dodgers jersey.

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San Francisco 49ers quarterback Colin Kaepernick was on the scene to party.

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Detroit Lions runningback Reggie Bush made it a date night (leaving little Briseis behind) bringing his wife Lilit Avagyan along for the fun.

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Sexy Carolina Panthers quarterback Cam Newton was suited with his sneakers for the event.

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Arizona Cardinals cornerback Antonio Cromartie and his wife Terricka Cason hit the carpet before the night's festivities.

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New York Giants wide receiver Victor Cruz and his wife Elaina Watley posed it up on the carpet.

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New dad (again) and "Extra" correspondent AJ Calloway was all smiles. 

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Dr. Michael Eric Dyson was in the mix.

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And "House of Lies" star Mekhi Phifer came out for the fun.

Check out J. Cole rocking the stage:

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Nice.

And a few photos from inside....

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Colin chopped it up with former NFL player Jerome "The Bus" Bettis. Old school meets new school.

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Hey guys!

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And Questlove was tapped to light up the 1s & 2s. Fun times.

 

Photos: Getty/Instagram

Mariah Carey HITS The Stage In Jamaica For The First Time + Ciara Credits Motherhood As Inspiration For Her Creative Process

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Mariah Carey hit the stage in Jamaica for the first time for a live performance. See the pics and video from her set and read about Ciara gushing over motherhood and her new music inside….

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Mariah Carey has performed all over the world over the years. But, she has never hit the stage for her Jamaican fans. That all changed last night as she was tapped to perform at the Jamaica Jazz and Blues Festival at Greenfield Stadium. And it appears the fans were all into MiMi and her classic hits as they sung along with the Elusive Chanteuse singer.

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The Grammy Award winning songstress kept her fans entertained with three wardrobe changes and singing hits such as “Touch My Body” and “Fantasy”. We're loving her performance pieces.  

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Oh...get it MiMi!

Peep a clip from her performance below (Note: at times the audio seems to run ahead of what she's actually singing):

Another mommy on her grind....

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After giving birth to her son Baby Future, new mom Ciara is ready to get back to making music. With the release of her latest track “I Bet”, it appears CiCi is pulling from her own life experiences and making great music in the process.

The R&B chick chopped it up with PEOPLE about how her son has been the inspiration behind her creative process as she works on her new album, which she named after her own mother. She explained,

"As soon as I had my son, everything changed," she says about choosing to name her upcoming album #Jackie after her mother. "I am now experiencing what [my mother] must have when I was young. [Becoming a mom] has inspired my creative process … and given me clarity both with songwriting as well as musicality for the album."
 

Since the release of her new single, everyone speculated that she was singing about her failed relationship with ex-fiance Future. Although she never admits whether or not the track is specifically about him, she did say she pulls from her own life experiences saying, "As a songwriter, I always pull from my life experiences as well as the experiences shared by others.”

Not only is she cranking out new music, but she has also been flossing her post baby bod on magazine covers. And she's looking fab! She offered up a few tips to new mothers on how to snap back into shape and to not “overthink the process”. She said,

"Enjoy the six-week period you have where you are not allowed to workout," she says. "As soon as you hit that mark, go hard, but find your pace, have a healthy diet plan … and drink tons of water."
 

Nice!

Peep a few clips of CiCi singing "I Bet" acoustic:

 

 

A video posted by Ciara (@ciara) on Jan 29, 2015 at 9:06pm PST

 

 

 

A video posted by Ciara (@ciara) on Jan 29, 2015 at 9:07pm PST

 

 

We'll keep you posted on her album deets once they become available. Are you excited to see Ciara back on the music scene?

 

Photos: Getty/Ciara's IG

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