I was reading a blog from a good friend on mine on another site in ladydi66xx
and thought to myself what an interesting topic that she chose to talk about? I wonder what some of you on this site think about it so here is her blog post entitled...."Testosterone, Pheromones and
Pheromones and Estrogen
Funny title for something
commonly known to us human beings as being "horny".
testosterone is more prominent in men, 10 times more but women have a certain level of it also. We are more sensitive to it, which is probably one reason our bodies react to virile, masculine men.
some would say that there are no definitive answers if in fact pheromones play a role between men and women. I say they do, it's simply that we have diminished our olfactory sensory neurons throughout time. Some men think I'm bizarre when I want to smell their armpits after having sex, just nuzzling and cuddling after sex.Well, to me, there is a scent that emanates and it can create an attraction of a sexual nature between men and women.
Estrogen levels in females... ahhh ! yes,
the estrogen, the female sexual hormones, the one that tells you that we are ready to procreate (don't you like that word) lol...
when I think of all these terms, words that we use, basically in laymen's terms, there is definitely a thing called sexual attraction between men and women. It's not always based on looks or personality but can also be the way we smell, at different times of the month.
have a stronger scent during ovulation or when they're on their period. Men have moments in the month where their libidos are very high and I've concluded, according to my personal experiences that when there is a full moon, men and women also crave sex more (that is, if you're
already in tune with your sexuality or enjoy it on a regular basis).
of those things are great, but what about the mind???
that connection you make with someone, that person who can excite your
mind and your p***y at the same time? Why do we vibe better with some and not with others?
Is it really about the "d**k" or the person?
So my thought is this folks....
do you think folks..is there really a difference between the sexes to
the point where we are all kind of superficial in some way where we tend
to care more about a man's cock size or a female's large breast or how
good her p***y is...instead of what that individual has on the inner
being of themselves?
Just curious to see what kind
of responses some of you will have to this topic?
Pheremones. I believe in their power. I believe we humans smell each other all day everyday. Some of us are drawn to folk and some of us are repelled by folk. We smell same as well as opposite sex. Not to get too deep- I'm simply saying that yes, i believe that pheremones exist and oh yeah, some of them turn me on-not to take away from the physical- but beyond that. Ever met that person that wasn't that hot but you were attracted to them? Men, aren't you all always breathing in your woman? Pheremones right? Hows about that person that you are so into that you literally sniff the hairs off thier body while you are having relations? Pheremones? I'm thinking yeah.
it all depends on how we meet. If I can c her first, I will kno if I am attracted to her body. If I talk 2 her first(phone, text,email.......) then I check out her mind, her style her conversation, & I can b attracted that way as well. Either way when we r close, I can b turned off by her smell or extreemly turn on(depending on the smell). If we go as far as sex, u'd best believe Im taking n a nose full of her with every breath. & if Im really feeling her flavor, imma give it a few days b4 I wash my sheets(like3/4)just 2 get that lingering blessing of her essence. Yea, im with u FemB.......Pheremones?.....me tinks,, yes!!!
Kyla Pratt is all about her privacy after having a 2nd daughter without virtually anyone knowing. Rarely do we get to see Kyla’s kids but recently she posted a pic of both of her darling daughters. Also, Jhena Aiko showed some skin for a GQ Magazine spread and Nia Long got nude for Allure. Check the adorable pics and Jhene’s hot spread inside…
We told you not to long ago about "Let's Stay Together" actress Kyla Pratt literally having a second daughter with her boyfriend/tattoo artist Danny Kilpatrick without anyone knowing. But she recently shared the most adorable Easter shot of both of her adorable little girls.
3-year-old Lyric and almost 8-month-old baby girl (who’s name we’re still not sure of) were all smiles as they posed with the Easter bunny.
And Dad is loving being a father for the 2nd time around. Kyla’s boyfriend also gushed on the cuteness of his new baby girl posting the picture above captioning, “About that Smile My momma said I sho kno how to make some Pretty babies Wuzup Pretty How u get So Pretty??? #KirkPatrickCamp My #POV #RightNow”
And in a magazine shoot...
Singer Jhene Aiko has landed on pages in GQ Magazine for a sexy photo shoot displaying her toned, slim bod and flawless skin.
“I’m pretty open-minded and so I like to give different types of guys chances. My ideal date would be driving with no destination and just talk, get to know each other, get lost. And I’ve actually done that with someone and it was a pretty good driving date. If it was was just like, ‘Get ready’ and then we’re going mountain climbing, and I’m like, ‘Wha? I have on flip flops.’ I like to be spontaneous, but I don’t like it to be a surprise.
“I grew up with all boys and so I’ve always been really rough. Now that I’m older, some guys feel like that’s playing too much. Those aren’t the guys for me anyway.
“‘I just want to come up to you and tell you that you’re really beautiful’ and walk away. It makes you want to know more about why they came up to you. That’s happened to me once and I still wonder about that guy.”
Check the spread below:
And in another sexy spread...
Single Moms Club actress Nia Long stripped all the way down (for the 2nd time after she posed nude while pregnant for EBONY in 2011) for the May issue of Allure magazine, along with Kristen Bell, Jenna Dewan Tatum and Minnie Driver.
The 43-year-old mother-of-two talks in the interview with the magazine about being uncomfortable naked, appreciating her body after it’s transformation during pregnancy and how she prepped for the shoot.
"Posing nude is probably the most uncomfortable thing ever, and not from a spiritual sense. I'm still going naked. I can still take it off—two babies later. The point is to capture the true essence of beauty in our most comfortable state—and that is nude."
How did you prep for today's shoot? "I ran for 45 minutes this morning, and I haven't eaten a morsel. As soon as this is over, I'm grabbing a burger."
Have you ever skinny-dipped? "Oh, yes. It's kind of a thing I do on the regular."
Are there any body parts that make you self-conscious? "When you have kids, your body changes drastically. My boobs are not the same as they were before, I'm not going to lie."
During the shot, Mrs. Carter dished on the campaign sharing, “I feel like it’s a very emotional spot. It goes through my growth and my childhood and who I wanted to be and who I have become.”
Check it out below:
And in other music news…
Mariah Carey fans, or lambs as she likes to call them, have become frustrated with Jermaine Dupri as they patiently await the release of Mimi’s newest album, The Art Of Letting Go. It’s reported the highly anticipated album was pulled from Island Records release schedule and Mimi’s lambs are pissed!
So what do they do? Take to Twitter to get some answers from the ATLien on WHY her album is still not being released. And they're pissed that it's been three years since the release of her last album.
Read the heated exchange of tweets below:
Is he mad or nah?
Of course Jermaine deleted the tweets soon after but we have to ask…what’s the hold up?
Well, it looks like Andy Cohen and Bravo got exactly what they wanted...all by allowing a hostile environment that provokes a group of black women to brawl on national tv. The "Real Housewives of Atlanta" reunion show--Part 1--nabbed record ratings for the network. Deets inside, plus the extra tardy response from Andy about props...
The Housewives and Bravo can now give themselves a pat on the back. They accomplished their mission of getting top ratings by any means necessary. And all of Bravo's promotion of the fight between Porsha and Kenya paid off.
Sunday's cable ratings are in and according to Zap2It, "RHOA" reunion won the night with 4.13 million viewers. This beats out the previous reunion ratings queen -- "The Real Housewives of New Jersey" -- who had around 3.8 million in a previous season. It even slightly beat out round 1 of the NBA playoffs on TNT Sunday night.
And now that the good folks involved got what they wanted after allowing Kenya Moore to provoke cast members with bullhorns and scepters in their personal space and laughing it up throughout the reunion show, Andy Cohen tweeted this tardy statement about the future of reunion shows: