Testosterone, Pheromones and Estrogen: Is There Such A Thing As Sexual Attraction Really??

I was reading a blog from a good friend on mine on another site in ladydi66xx and thought to myself what an interesting topic that she chose to talk about? I wonder what some of you on this site think about it so here is her blog post entitled...."Testosterone, Pheromones and

Testosterone, Pheromones and Estrogen

Funny title for something commonly known to us human beings as being "horny".

Well, testosterone is more prominent in men, 10 times more but women have a certain level of it also. We are more sensitive to it, which is probably one reason our bodies react to virile, masculine men.

Pheromones,.... some would say that there are no definitive answers if in fact pheromones play a role between men and women. I say they do, it's simply that we have diminished our olfactory sensory neurons throughout time. Some men think I'm bizarre when I want to smell their armpits after having sex, just nuzzling and cuddling after sex.Well, to me, there is a scent that emanates and it can create an attraction of a sexual nature between men and women.

Estrogen levels in females... ahhh ! yes, the estrogen, the female sexual hormones, the one that tells you that we are ready to procreate (don't you like that word) lol...

So, when I think of all these terms, words that we use, basically in laymen's terms, there is definitely a thing called sexual attraction between men and women. It's not always based on looks or personality but can also be the way we smell, at different times of the month.

Women  have a stronger scent during ovulation or when they're on their period. Men have moments in the month where their libidos are very high and I've concluded, according to my personal experiences that when there is a full moon, men and women also crave sex more (that is, if you're
already in tune with your sexuality or enjoy it on a regular basis).

All of those things are great, but what about the mind???

what about that connection you make with someone, that person who can excite your
mind and your p***y at the same time? Why do we vibe better with some and not with others?

Is it really about the "d**k" or the person?

you tell me

So my thought is this folks....

What do you think folks..is there really a difference between the sexes to
the point where we are all kind of superficial in some way where we tend
to care more about a man's cock size or a female's large breast or how
good her p***y is...instead of what that individual has on the inner
being of themselves?

Just curious to see what kind of responses some of you will have to this topic?

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Pheremones. I believe in their power. I believe we humans smell each other all day everyday. Some of us are drawn to folk and some of us are repelled by folk. We smell same as well as opposite sex. Not to get too deep- I'm simply saying that yes, i believe that pheremones exist and oh yeah, some of them turn me on-not to take away from the physical- but beyond that. Ever met that person that wasn't that hot but you were attracted to them? Men, aren't you all always breathing in your woman? Pheremones right? Hows about that person that you are so into that you literally sniff the hairs off thier body while you are having relations? Pheremones? I'm thinking yeah.
it all depends on how we meet. If I can c her first, I will kno if I am attracted to her body. If I talk 2 her first(phone, text,email.......) then I check out her mind, her style her conversation, & I can b attracted that way as well. Either way when we r close, I can b turned off by her smell or extreemly turn on(depending on the smell). If we go as far as sex, u'd best believe Im taking n a nose full of her with every breath. & if Im really feeling her flavor, imma give it a few days b4 I wash my sheets(like3/4)just 2 get that lingering blessing of her essence. Yea, im with u FemB.......Pheremones?.....me tinks,, yes!!!




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Beyonce Serves Floral Fab & Cleavage In NYC + Trey Songz Gets Wet & WILD With Girls On The Set Of “Best Friend” Video Shoot

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We spotted Beyonce out and about in NYC today serving floral fab with a hint of cleavage. Peep her candids and check out the “girls gone wild” shots of Trey Songz on the set of a new video inside….

Beyonce was all about floral prints and boobage today in NYC.

The “Flawless” one was spotted arriving to a building in midtown today looking summertime fine in a flower printed bodycon, which she topped off with a white blazer resting on her shoulders.

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Her lady lumps were sitting right and tight in that dress as she trekked through the concrete jungle to handle business.

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With the recent spottings of Mrs. Carter out and about in the Big Apple, we feel something big is likely coming. And we can’t wait till it’s revealed.  

On a video set....

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Trey Songz was busy living it up on the video set of his upcoming visuals for his joint track with rapper J.R. titled, "Best Friend.”

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Mr. Steal Your Girl invited a few video vixens to a private estate in East Hampton to film for the upcoming video. And as you can see, he had a blast in the pool as he got wet and wild with the ladies.

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Trigga definitely was mixing business with pleasure as he shot the visuals for his new video. Like, how hard are you really working with half naked chicks surrounding you.

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"Say Aah"...literally.

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And we see Trigga hasn't skipped any days in the gym either. Looking good Mr. Neverson. 


Photos: INF/WENN

IT’S OFFICIAL: Sherri Shepherd CONFIRMED To Return To “The View” For 50 Episodes + Will Packer’s “Buckhead” Drama Sold To NBC

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We told you Sherri Shepherd would be returning to co-host “The View.” And now, it has been confirmed. Come inside for the deets on Sherri’s new deal and producer Will Packer’s Atlanta based “Buckhead” drama coming to NBC…

Former “The View” co-host Sherri Shepherd is set to return to the round table on the daytime talk show. We previously told you she would be resuming her role on the show as a recurring contributor. But, new reports suggest the comedienne will return as a lead contributor and is expected to appear in about 50 episodes.

Deadline reports:

The addition of Shepherd is part of The View overhaul this summer as ABC News is looking to reignite the veteran daytime talk show to its former ratings glory after a turbulent 18th season, the first without co-creator Barbara Walters.

Next season, The View will return to a five-host format after opting for four co-hosts this season. Confirmed for three of the chairs are Whoopi Goldberg, the only returning host; Raven-Symone; and Michelle Collins; to be joined by Candace Cameron Bure and Paula Faris. Shepherd is expected to lead a group of a half dozen or so contributors that also would include Stacey London and Molly Sims, among others.

You’ll recall, Sherri left “The View” last summer after she was unable to agree on contract terms, following a seven-year stint. About two months ago, the “Soul Man” star returned to guest co-host. And now, fans can get excited to see more of Sherri coming this fall.


In other TV news...

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Famed producer Will Packer has a new television series in the works. And he’s taking it back to his beloved hometown of Atlanta.

The Think Like A Man producer has sold a new drama, based in Atlanta, to NBC titled “Buckhead,” making it the first TV sale for his Will Packer Productions company. He’s set to executive produce alongside Head of Television for Will Packer Prods, Korin Huggins, who’s co-executive producing.

According to Deadline, the hour-long series, written and executive produced by David McMillan, was booked through Universal TV where Will recently hashed out the details for his overall deal through 2017.

A synopsis of the series reads:

Buckhead is described as a drama about ambition, sex, and revenge set in the extravagant, high-stakes world of Atlanta politics, entertainment, churches and strip clubs.

Sounds interesting.

In addition to his upcoming project, he serves as executive producer for the upcoming Straight Outta Compton biopic (August 14th) and Ride Along 2, set to premiere in theaters January 15, 2016. He also recently signed on to executive produce A+E Networks’ remake of miniseries “Roots.” Work!

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YBF KIDS: Chad Ochocinco's Daughter Kennedi Chanel Gets Her Hair Washed + Mimi Faust Takes Eva Out On The Lake + Thandie Newton & Son Booker At The Zoo

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In today's YBF Kids roundup, we've got adorable snapshots of Chad Ochocinco's 2-month old daughter, "Love & Hip Hop: ATL" star Mimi Faust out with little Eva and Thandie Newton at the zoo with her husband and son Booker.  Pics inside...

First up...... 

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Former NFL baller Chad Ochocinco (above) posted an adorable snapshot of his 2-month-old daughter Kennedi Chanel (atop) getting her hair washed. As you can see, she's got her dad's eyes!  Kennedi is Chad's child with longtime girlfriend Crystal Bates.  By the way, Chad has four other children from previous relationships.


In other spottings.....

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Check out the excited look of one little lady head to the lake!  

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For Sunday Funday, that little lady (Eva Giselle) joined her mommy "LAHH ATL" star Mimi Faust for a trip to Lake Allatoona, located 30 miles outside of Atlanta. 

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5-year-old Eva took to the water tubing like a pro.  She even gave the camera one of her dad Stevie J's signature looks.


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The fun also included a boat ride.


In California....

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We saw "Rogue" actress Thandie Newton and her screenwriter husband Ol Parker and their baby son Booker Jombe Parker out and about on a Sunday afternoon.

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In addition to their trip to the Farmer's Market, the family also visited the petting zoo where we learned that Booker likes bunnies!

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Looking at the pics, we think lil' Booker might have a future in Hollywood based on the way he's commanding that pony!  He's already a picture perfect co-star if mommy ever stars in a Western flick!



Photo via Splash/Mimi's IG/Chad's IG




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