Testosterone, Pheromones and Estrogen: Is There Such A Thing As Sexual Attraction Really??

I was reading a blog from a good friend on mine on another site in ladydi66xx and thought to myself what an interesting topic that she chose to talk about? I wonder what some of you on this site think about it so here is her blog post entitled...."Testosterone, Pheromones and

Testosterone, Pheromones and Estrogen

Funny title for something commonly known to us human beings as being "horny".

Well, testosterone is more prominent in men, 10 times more but women have a certain level of it also. We are more sensitive to it, which is probably one reason our bodies react to virile, masculine men.

Pheromones,.... some would say that there are no definitive answers if in fact pheromones play a role between men and women. I say they do, it's simply that we have diminished our olfactory sensory neurons throughout time. Some men think I'm bizarre when I want to smell their armpits after having sex, just nuzzling and cuddling after sex.Well, to me, there is a scent that emanates and it can create an attraction of a sexual nature between men and women.

Estrogen levels in females... ahhh ! yes, the estrogen, the female sexual hormones, the one that tells you that we are ready to procreate (don't you like that word) lol...

So, when I think of all these terms, words that we use, basically in laymen's terms, there is definitely a thing called sexual attraction between men and women. It's not always based on looks or personality but can also be the way we smell, at different times of the month.

Women  have a stronger scent during ovulation or when they're on their period. Men have moments in the month where their libidos are very high and I've concluded, according to my personal experiences that when there is a full moon, men and women also crave sex more (that is, if you're
already in tune with your sexuality or enjoy it on a regular basis).

All of those things are great, but what about the mind???

what about that connection you make with someone, that person who can excite your
mind and your p***y at the same time? Why do we vibe better with some and not with others?

Is it really about the "d**k" or the person?

you tell me

So my thought is this folks....

What do you think folks..is there really a difference between the sexes to
the point where we are all kind of superficial in some way where we tend
to care more about a man's cock size or a female's large breast or how
good her p***y is...instead of what that individual has on the inner
being of themselves?

Just curious to see what kind of responses some of you will have to this topic?

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Pheremones. I believe in their power. I believe we humans smell each other all day everyday. Some of us are drawn to folk and some of us are repelled by folk. We smell same as well as opposite sex. Not to get too deep- I'm simply saying that yes, i believe that pheremones exist and oh yeah, some of them turn me on-not to take away from the physical- but beyond that. Ever met that person that wasn't that hot but you were attracted to them? Men, aren't you all always breathing in your woman? Pheremones right? Hows about that person that you are so into that you literally sniff the hairs off thier body while you are having relations? Pheremones? I'm thinking yeah.
it all depends on how we meet. If I can c her first, I will kno if I am attracted to her body. If I talk 2 her first(phone, text,email.......) then I check out her mind, her style her conversation, & I can b attracted that way as well. Either way when we r close, I can b turned off by her smell or extreemly turn on(depending on the smell). If we go as far as sex, u'd best believe Im taking n a nose full of her with every breath. & if Im really feeling her flavor, imma give it a few days b4 I wash my sheets(like3/4)just 2 get that lingering blessing of her essence. Yea, im with u FemB.......Pheremones?.....me tinks,, yes!!!




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EVENTS: Kenya Moore, Demetria McKinney, Cynthia Bailey & More Salute to Excellence In Atlanta

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Peter Thomas paid tribute to Kandi Burruss and David Banner at this year's Salute To Excellence Awards.  RHOA stars Kenya Moore, Cynthia Bailey and Demetria McKinney looked on. See pics from the event inside...

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Last night, Bar One owner Peter Thomas produced the “How can I BE Down Salute to Excellence Awards Gala” in Atlanta at the Intercontinental Hotel.

The awards pay tribute to individuals who've paved the way in the entertainment industry. This year, Peter honored rapper/activist David Banner, business mogul Kandi Burruss, record exec Jermaine Dupri and radio personality Greg Street.

The event was hosted by Revolt TV’s Kenny Burns, and entertainment exec Deb Antney (who also was an award recipient).


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Host Kenny Burns "modeled" the trophy alongside Peter and his fab wife Cynthia Bailey.

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We haven't seen Deb Antney since she had to go "Oops Upside Your Head" on Joseline Hernandez at the "LAHH ATL" reunion. She got all dolled up for the event.


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ynthia Bailey looked radiant and was right by her hubby's side supporting his event.

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The event also brought out former Miss USA and Cynthia's "RHOA" castmate Kenya Moore.

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Akso a the event was "House Of Payne" star Demetria McKinney.  While Demetria is clever enough to remain mum, we have heard from several well placed sources that she will be on "RHOA" this year as a friend of Kenya and Cynthia.

We feeling all the bra action?



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"RHOA" star and business mogul Kandi Burruss was an award recipient last night. She posed alongside hubby and "Hollywood Divas" producer Todd Tucker.  And we're actually loving her look....surprisingly.

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"LAHH ATL" star Benzino was there to support Peter.

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V103 radio personality Greg Street was presented his award.

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TIP pulled double duty as he attended a brunch in honor of his wife Tiny earlier in the day.  However, he switched up his caps.  Wish it would have been the whole look that was switched up.

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"Fashion Queens" host Derek J literally popped out of his blouse.

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Dice attended with her girlfriend.  Work.

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David Banner, who was very vocal throughout the Ferguson Protests, was an award recipient as well.




Photos via Prince Williams/ATLpics.net




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This just in....Keyshia Cole is ALLEGEDLY dating Birdman!  Keyshia ALLEGEDLY snapped and beat up Birdman's side chick.  And Keyshia was arrested for battery and an outstanding reckless driving warrant this morning! More inside....

Breaking news.....Keyshia Cole is apparently dating Birdman! According to TMZ, Keyshia was busted for assault this morning after she caught a random chick inside Birdman's Carlyle condo complex in West L.A.

Keyshia was up in her feelings after security allowed her to go upstairs (big mistake!) and she spotted the chick inside around 5am.  What happened next?  Well....the apparent side chick received scratches all over her face while Keyshia received a mug shot (which we haven't seen YET).

Ms. Cole was jailed this morning and arrested for battery and for an outstanding reckless driving warrant.  She was released on $46,000 bail.  TheYBF.com reached out to Keyshia's rep and are waiting for a response.



On social media....Keyshia shared:

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Since her release...

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Keyshia has been finding comfort with her dog. She captioned, "Me and my LolaMae!! She knows my (heart).I





Photos via Keyshia Cole's Instagram


Nipsey Hussle Posts A Pic With Rumored Boo Lauren London + The Carters Take Blue Ivy To Notre Dame In Paris

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Nipsey Hussle posted a snap with his rumored boo Lauren London today.  Check it inside, plus The Carters kickin' it Paris with Blue Ivy...

Oh, hey you two.  Rapper Nipsey Hussle may be confirming rumors of his relationship with actress Lauren London.  He posted the above saying, "Me and my Loc." 

Hmmm.  Not sure how we're feeling about these two but Lauren seems to love rappers, doesn't she? 


Meanwhile over in Paris, Beyonce & Jay Z brought Blue Ivy over to Notre Dame for a visit to the famous Cathedral:

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Awww.  Beyonce also posted more pics from their recent birthday yacht vacay:

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Photos: Beyonce.com/Nipsey's IG

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