Testosterone, Pheromones and Estrogen: Is There Such A Thing As Sexual Attraction Really??

I was reading a blog from a good friend on mine on another site in ladydi66xx and thought to myself what an interesting topic that she chose to talk about? I wonder what some of you on this site think about it so here is her blog post entitled...."Testosterone, Pheromones and

Testosterone, Pheromones and Estrogen

Funny title for something commonly known to us human beings as being "horny".

Well, testosterone is more prominent in men, 10 times more but women have a certain level of it also. We are more sensitive to it, which is probably one reason our bodies react to virile, masculine men.

Pheromones,.... some would say that there are no definitive answers if in fact pheromones play a role between men and women. I say they do, it's simply that we have diminished our olfactory sensory neurons throughout time. Some men think I'm bizarre when I want to smell their armpits after having sex, just nuzzling and cuddling after sex.Well, to me, there is a scent that emanates and it can create an attraction of a sexual nature between men and women.

Estrogen levels in females... ahhh ! yes, the estrogen, the female sexual hormones, the one that tells you that we are ready to procreate (don't you like that word) lol...

So, when I think of all these terms, words that we use, basically in laymen's terms, there is definitely a thing called sexual attraction between men and women. It's not always based on looks or personality but can also be the way we smell, at different times of the month.

Women  have a stronger scent during ovulation or when they're on their period. Men have moments in the month where their libidos are very high and I've concluded, according to my personal experiences that when there is a full moon, men and women also crave sex more (that is, if you're
already in tune with your sexuality or enjoy it on a regular basis).

All of those things are great, but what about the mind???

what about that connection you make with someone, that person who can excite your
mind and your p***y at the same time? Why do we vibe better with some and not with others?

Is it really about the "d**k" or the person?

you tell me

So my thought is this folks....

What do you think folks..is there really a difference between the sexes to
the point where we are all kind of superficial in some way where we tend
to care more about a man's cock size or a female's large breast or how
good her p***y is...instead of what that individual has on the inner
being of themselves?

Just curious to see what kind of responses some of you will have to this topic?

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Pheremones. I believe in their power. I believe we humans smell each other all day everyday. Some of us are drawn to folk and some of us are repelled by folk. We smell same as well as opposite sex. Not to get too deep- I'm simply saying that yes, i believe that pheremones exist and oh yeah, some of them turn me on-not to take away from the physical- but beyond that. Ever met that person that wasn't that hot but you were attracted to them? Men, aren't you all always breathing in your woman? Pheremones right? Hows about that person that you are so into that you literally sniff the hairs off thier body while you are having relations? Pheremones? I'm thinking yeah.
it all depends on how we meet. If I can c her first, I will kno if I am attracted to her body. If I talk 2 her first(phone, text,email.......) then I check out her mind, her style her conversation, & I can b attracted that way as well. Either way when we r close, I can b turned off by her smell or extreemly turn on(depending on the smell). If we go as far as sex, u'd best believe Im taking n a nose full of her with every breath. & if Im really feeling her flavor, imma give it a few days b4 I wash my sheets(like3/4)just 2 get that lingering blessing of her essence. Yea, im with u FemB.......Pheremones?.....me tinks,, yes!!!




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BEST OF BOTH WORLDS: Beyonce & Jay Z Set To Tour...TOGETHER...This Summer?

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It's like the umpteenth surprise from the Carter clan in the last 6 months.  One of Forbes' richest power couple is rumored to be going on tour...together...this summer.  Deets inside...

After both made surprise performances at Coachella this past weekend (Beyonce crashing her sister Solange's set and Jay coming out to rock with frenemy Nas), a new rumor is swirling.  The Carters are going on a joint tour this summer!  Supposedly.

Word on the Page Six curb is that Yonce & Hov plan to announce a 20-stadium US tour that will start in late June.  And it’s quite possible, reportedly, the twosome will perform in New York on July 4.

Bey just wrapped her huge Mrs. Carter Show World Tour, while Jay recently wrapped his 58-city Magna Carta Holy Grail world tour.  And they made millions of those, and performing together sporadically over the last few months.

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It's a family affair.  Couples who cake together....stay together.


Photos: Beyonce's Tumblr

August Alsina GOES OFF On ‘106 & Park’ After Trey Songz Question + Nelly Claims He’s 100%...SINGLE

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Newcomer August Alsina hit up ‘106 & Park’ today and ish went totally left when he was asked about Trey Songz. Plus, Nelly is making claims that he’s single as a dollar bill. Check the video of August talking sideways and Nelly’s message when you go inside…

R&B singer August Alsina’s debut album Testimony dropped today so he swung through ‘106 & Park’ on the promo trail to debut a new video he has with Fabolous, “Grind & Pray/Get Ya Money.”

In the interview, 106 host Keisha Chante asked the New Orleans singer if he and Trey Songz would ever be able to squash their beef and become friends again. You’ll recall, August said he doesn’t “f*ck” with Trigga because of his big ego and major attitude.

There was an unconfirmed rumor that Trey got a little big headed when he found out that he was taking the stage at a show before August. Guess Trey figured he should be the last performance when it comes to an upcoming artist. August admits he ended up not doing a show with Trey because he “can’t deal with ni**as’ egos and attitudes” so it’s possible the rumor has some truth.

Whatever it is…the Testimony singer wants nothing to do with Trey. And he definitely doesn’t feel like dealing with interviews asking about Trey after he specifically told producers NOT to ask about their “beef.”

When asked about Trey…August, clearly annoyed, responded, “I just told y’all not to ask me that sh*t when I got up in here.”

Keisha was pretty upset over his comment, clearly making sure not to look at him as he spoke, and then stormed off set as he introduced his new video.  Oooh she mad.

Check it:



And in other news…


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Nelly has a message for the masses…he’s SINGLE! He may be single at the moment, but he definitely had some weird love “square” type situation going on.

We told you about him and Ashanti possibly getting back together after partying together during Super Bowl weekend (in matching furs) and facetiming during her Braveheart album release party.


Then Nelly threw a curve ball naming his former boo Tae Heckard his “Woman Crush Wednesday” on Instagram, calling her by her pet name “Cookie.” Which could have been an attempt to get Tae’s attention because she’s been occupying her time by flirting with Detroit Pistons guard Brandon Jennings via Twitter.  And seemingly in real life.

Nelly posted the picture above with the caption, “Hold up.... !! I'm 100% single...! So what...!!”

These “celeb” relationships can get so complicated sometimes...


Photos: BET/Nelly’s IG

OH: Brandy Speaks On Split From Ryan Press

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While Brandy refused to discuss her split from Ryan Press previously, she's talking now.  Find out what she had to say about the breakup inside....

Back in February, we broke the news that "The Game" star Brandy and fiance Ryan called off their engagement.  Sources close to the couple confirmed to us they decided to pull back on moving so fast.  

 photo brandy-new-years-eve-with-fiance-ryan-press-22a_zpsf126827f.jpg Brandy refused to speak about the breakup when asked about it on red carpets and events.  We were even told that topic was totally off limits http://theybf.com/2014/03/26/ybf-interviews-brandy-dishes-on-her-%E2%80%... ">when we interviewed B Rocka on the set of TV Land's "Soul Man" recently.  But, she decided to run to Us Weekly to speak on it, via her rep.

The magazine confirmed what we had already confirmed two months ago--the engagement is totally off.

"They are no longer together. The engagement is off, but the friendship is still on."

"They decided to take a step back and reevaluate the relationship.  Brandy is 35 now -- that's what her whole #35 on Twitter is about, becoming her own woman."


Our source also told us a few months ago that they remain friends as he evens showed up to her birthday party.  And her rep confirmed that as well:

"Brandy has a daughter and she still wants to be married and have more kids but she is working on so many other things right now....They haven't ended things on a bad note and they still speak all the time."

So, there you have it.  Meanwhile, brandy is focusing on her award winning role as Chardonnay Pitts on BET's "The Game" and her new music.

She told VH1's Big Morning Buzz this AM about her upcoming new album, “It’s a personal album, singing about life and a lot of things I’ve been going through lately.”

We're sure. 

And about that NAACP Award for Best Supporting Actress for her role on "The Game":

“I forgot what it was like to win an award. So it was very special to fill that energy and love in the room, but I was so happy to win for playing Chardonnay because it was my first role as an adult woman.”

Check out the video below:

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