Okay, Sad thing is I was born and raised in a place were there are very few black people roaming the streets. Grade school, Little to none. Junior High, there were a little more then few and then High School. Well, Lets just say I wasn't the one anyone was drooling over. I wasn't ugly just so tomboyish, not many guys were attracted to me. That I understand ...But I had many guy friends. And most if not all were cute young black men whom I hardly noticed showed any interest in the few young black women at the school. After High School, I got all girl-ed up and got noticed. Still the men I was/am interested in didn't seem to notice me(black men). Black men were interested in having sex, But not many were interested in actually getting to know me, date, talk... That was to be expected. Sex is what comes first for most. Women included.
My friends, my cousins as well as my older brother are with white women. Married, Dating and just plain screwing around... I have been in a few relationships (all black men). None from the state of boredom, Mormons and hell...AKA Utah. All ended somewhat bad. I'm good friends with two ex boyfriends. Even though both cheated on me. I realized as I got older no matter what I did how often I went out or how open minded I was, It's still the same story. Not interested. And if they are, it's only for a minute. Literally.
I moved to Dallas. Came back after a few years and realized I will be single for the rest of my natural born life. It's a long story...Which boils down to me being attracted to men that are no long into me. If they ever were at all....Black Men. I seem to be good enough to befriend. Yet not good enough to build a relationship with... And I'm not on a self pitty trip. I'm a damn good woman. That I know. Stuff like this has happened to many of my friends... Which brings me back to my original question.... "Are Black Men Still Attracted To Black Women?"

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I was married to a black woman for 15 years and knew her for 16 years. After my divorce I have dated it seems nothing but white women but I am not excluding dating or getting with a black female again? I think in my area the black women just don't have what it takes in my eyes to go back down that road again or I haven't met that special one to be with? I will not settle for any black female who does not have a good head on her shoulders and is not going places!

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WHAT'S BEEF: Did Chris Brown GET PISSY With Meek Mill OVER Rihanna? + Was Chris LASHING Out At Raz B For "ALLEGEDLY" Saying He's Gay?

Chris Brown is involved in a few beefs with other industry artists right now.  Get the deets on what's going on between him and Meek Mill and Raz B!

The word on the street is that Meek Mill got his verse on Chris Brown's "Don't Judge Me" dropped from the Fortune disc because Chris got pissy that Meek was hanging with Rihanna at a strip club. 

Chris wasn't too pleased that Rihanna stopped by Meek Mill's party at Club Perfections last month so he bumped Meek off the disc.  Over the weekend, Meek tweeted,

 

We shall see how this one play's out.  But you know how pissy Chris can be......

 

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On Chris the book says,

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Chris responded (his tweets were later deleted) to the alleged book saying,

 

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And in Las Vegas...........

Yesterday, Ne-Yo hosted Beach Life's Rehab Pool in the Hard Rock Hotel.

He tweeted, Chill day in my hometown Vegas, sipping @Malibu_Red at Rehab Pool. Life is good! #Compound - R.E.D 9/18/12

He also paraded around with a bevy of beauties and got the crowd hyped.

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Though his voice was not up to par, Bobby Brown put in a good faith effort this morning during a concert for The TODAY Show.  He performed his new track "Don't Let Me Die" "Every Little Step" and "My Perogative."

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He said he isn't doing reality tv now and is focused on his new album The Masterpiece.

Also, NBC correspondent Tamron Hall tweeted, Hanging with @todayshow fam this morn! The king of R&B Bobby Brown is here and his fans are already lined up waiting !!!@kingbobbybrown

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