My Female Friend Wanted To Know From Me......Is He Too Small,..........Or Am I Too Picky?
I then told her that it is a choice....a preference of what you desire and want out of life in
regards to wanting a man who's penis size is adequate enough to fulfill
your needs!
Some women want to be filled to the brim in size and girth and other want it long and hard where they want to feel a man's
dick coming up through her throat from her pussy!
So speaking as a man are we supposed to say that penis size doesn’t matter to a woman? I
think the plain truth is that for many of them.....it does. And it
does a lot for some of the woman on this site!
And women are often made to feel guilty when they admit that, because there’s supposed
to be more to relationships than sex.
Well, of course there is........but there’s also got to be sex!
Can a woman actually and honestly decide if she can work things out with a potential
long-term or short-term love, or if the disappointing package will
always be an issue to them?
"So.....How small is too small?
That comes down to a woman's personal preferences. For some women, that
means not enough length, for others, it’s the girth that makes her feel
"filled up." Part of creating that sensation is having well developed
pelvic floor muscles, as this allows her to better squeeze a man's shaft
during intercourse, which creates more stimulation for both of them.
"What does sexual satisfaction mean for you?"
Can a woman honestly focus on the emotional bond rather than the size?
Can a woman ever be satisfied with the oral action he provides?
Are there other ways to use his size to your advantage.......maybe by
arranging for the head of his penis to knock against your G spot, which a
larger one wouldn’t be able to do?
In other words, it’s not so much his "fault" for being small as both of you not matching up in
the bedroom which tends to be a common problem, and one that neither of
you is to blame for. The question isn’t "Is he too small?" so much as
"Are you sexually satisfied in this relationship?"
If the answer is no, then you have another question to ask:
Do you need sexual satisfaction to be happy?
Some don’t but I bet that other women do. The ultimate decision is yours,
and nobody else should make you feel guilty or wrong about it.
In the long run, sex can be the glue that holds a man and a woman together
through the rough times or it can be the emotional connection that sees
you through times when sex isn’t so available.
There’s no easy answer but at least you can take the focus off his equipment and onto a
larger issue.......one that you might be able to solve with more
creative lovemaking or that makes you realize you’ve got to move on.
So ladies please be honest with yourself and tell the men in your life
that size does matter to you?
What would you advise? Maybe you can add more to what I've already said to my friend?
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Permalink Reply by Michigan's Finest on -
So Queens in the hood how small is too small and for the kings what's your take on this?
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Permalink Reply by Bam on -
Sounds to me like she needs to move on to a larger penis. I'm just saying(of course , I don't know how thight she is) but if I get with a female and I cant feel her insides, I'm calling Houston, cause we have a problem!!!!!!!
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Permalink Reply by Fembeauty on -
I will say this, I know a woman who was in a relationship with a "smaller" man who she described as "nice and loving". It didn't last. She often spoke of sexual dissatisfaction. She was young at the time but no, it didn't last.
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Permalink Reply by Shawn on -
I small penis in a well used vagina is not going to work. I don't care how good the foreplay is, how nice he is, or how good he is. It's not going to work. It's like a whale eating a tic tac.
She's not being picky, she's being smart. You need some SIZE!!!!
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Permalink Reply by Fembeauty on
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LOL @ "whale eating a tic tac" gurl, I just the best laugh with that one. Seriously, I'd hate to be in either one of those shoes. How does one deal? That's just not an ideal situation :o(
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Permalink Reply by mr.moody on -
It all depends on the chick. Some women extra tight privates that even a finger hurts.
Other women have enough vaginal space to move a small community into.
Overall, i think that size matters! I also think that a woman should NEVER fake satisfaction from a small dick.
I also think that men should NEVER act like their women have bomb cootch if shes wack!
Let your partner know ur issues! Thats the only true way to resolve confusion and create bliss!
True story:A looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnggggggggggggg
time ago, i was having a good ol fashion group sex session with some dimes and few of the homies. One of my boys had a joint about the size of a index finger. The sight of that was enough to have us all falling out, BUT GUESS WHAT? HE-WAS-WRECKING-SHOP! LOL!! I guess my man had his angle game down pat! He ended up sleeping with one of the chicks for like the entire summer.
Size is all relative. It would seem that the motion in the ocean is truly king.
******-DEAR, Mrs.Moody, that was a llllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllloooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnngggggggggggggggggggggg time ago!
Im just sayin'....
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Permalink Reply by Michigan's Finest on
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LOl @ ya man I hear ya there much respect!!
Bam said:Sounds to me like she needs to move on to a larger penis. I'm just saying(of course , I don't know how thight she is) but if I get with a female and I cant feel her insides, I'm calling Houston, cause we have a problem!!!!!!!
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Permalink Reply by Michigan's Finest on
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Well them Ms. Fem I would guess that she was more into the size issue of it more so than him?
Fembeauty said:I will say this, I know a woman who was in a relationship with a "smaller" man who she described as "nice and loving". It didn't last. She often spoke of sexual dissatisfaction. She was young at the time but no, it didn't last.
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Permalink Reply by Michigan's Finest on
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lol Good analogy there Shawn well in that respect that would be too small for her!
Shawn said:I small penis in a well used vagina is not going to work. I don't care how good the foreplay is, how nice he is, or how good he is. It's not going to work. It's like a whale eating a tic tac.
She's not being picky, she's being smart. You need some SIZE!!!!
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Permalink Reply by Michigan's Finest on
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I fell ya King Moody and way to clear and clean it up with Mrs. Moody!!
mr.moody said:It all depends on the chick. Some women extra tight privates that even a finger hurts.
Other women have enough vaginal space to move a small community into.
Overall, i think that size matters! I also think that a woman should NEVER fake satisfaction from a small dick.
I also think that men should NEVER act like their women have bomb cootch if shes wack!
Let your partner know ur issues! Thats the only true way to resolve confusion and create bliss!
True story:A looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnggggggggggggg
time ago, i was having a good ol fashion group sex session with some dimes and few of the homies. One of my boys had a joint about the size of a index finger. The sight of that was enough to have us all falling out, BUT GUESS WHAT? HE-WAS-WRECKING-SHOP! LOL!! I guess my man had his angle game down pat! He ended up sleeping with one of the chicks for like the entire summer.
Size is all relative. It would seem that the motion in the ocean is truly king.
******-DEAR, Mrs.Moody, that was a llllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllloooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnngggggggggggggggggggggg time ago!
Im just sayin'....
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Permalink Reply by Dee Hill on -
For me penis size does not matter I have had men with big penis and didn't know what to do with it.then I have been, with men with some small penis and Good Lord have mercy on me is all I can say.
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Permalink Reply by Shawn on
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Wow, that's interesting to know. I was with a "guy" and I puked afterwards. My body was ready to get rocked and when he stuck it in, my little "vag" was saying "Hello? Hello? Is something in here?"
Dee Hill said:For me penis size does not matter I have had men with big penis and didn't know what to do with it.then I have been, with men with some small penis and Good Lord have mercy on me is all I can say.
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