Ok so I was talking with some more mature women and one exclaimed, " I wasted my good pussy on some bullshit!" So I got to thinking...
first I remembered that book called Good Pussy. I read it was very interesting
then I started wondering...Is there a difference in pussy? Isn't it all just the same?
Is saying a woman has good pussy synonymous with saying I love you so she will give in and give up the goods?
or Is it good because her's is tighter than someone else's or because she knows how to please you?

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I have discussed this topic with men (and some women) and they say each one is different as in taste, smell, texture, wetness, tightness, etc. Lots of women claim to have the "best" pussy--whateva. At the end of the day, no matter how "good" it is, if he is gonna cheat, he will. And to those men, its only but a meat sleeve anyway. I believe it is whom the pussy is attached to that matters most.
u hav all kinds... short, long, fat, meaty, bony,bald, fuzzy, loose, tight,dry, wet, snappn, silky, bottomless, dwallified, .......n short, u hav all kinds; Yet, tighter or wetter doesn't really mean better. it could b painfully tight or bothersome wet. while ur feelings 4 the owner of that pussy may intensify the pleasure 4 u, i dont think that those feelings r enuff 2 make the pussy good. good pussy is not emotional & does not have feelings attached. it is as it implies.....physical..... its about the pussy. what may b good 2 me, may not feel so good 2 her boyfriend(lol). so with that n mind we can say that all pussy can b made good, & it depends greatly on the pussyfucker. (but what i kno, just my $0.02)
shame on you LMAO!

Bam said:
u hav all kinds... short, long, fat, meaty, bony,bald, fuzzy, loose, tight,dry, wet, snappn, silky, bottomless, dwallified, .......n short, u hav all kinds; Yet, tighter or wetter doesn't really mean better. it could b painfully tight or bothersome wet. while ur feelings 4 the owner of that pussy may intensify the pleasure 4 u, i dont think that those feelings r enuff 2 make the pussy good. good pussy is not emotional & does not have feelings attached. it is as it implies.....physical..... its about the pussy. what may b good 2 me, may not feel so good 2 her boyfriend(lol). so with that n mind we can say that all pussy can b made good, & it depends greatly on the pussyfucker. (but what i kno, just my $0.02)
i kno, i kno, i kno (with chin to chest), but thats real talk.......what can i say, my youthful days are filled with memories & actions that do not fit my present, but are tailored 2 my past. most of the things i use to do without thought, without regards 2 any1else. You could say i was that mafu##er, that daughterfu##er, that girlfriendfu##er, (prolly y im single now~ over the years i've been with 2 many females who were n relationships~& i find it hard, hard 2 give the whole of me & i really dont want 2 b n a 1/2 ass relationship) so i stand yet on another battlefield within myself, but the good thing is that no matter the outcome (or income for that matter) i will celebrate, i will eat, drink & b BAM!!!!! until i die!

LatinTemptress said:
shame on you LMAO!

There's definitely a difference in pussy as u can see from King Bam's description. LOL. Good pussy is based on ones preference so it's almost impossible for it to be all the same. While some men like it drippin wet, others may prefer it slightly moist (I don't know any of them tho...lol). While some like it tight, others may like to slide right in.
Also, who it's attached to makes a difference. Now, I'm no man by far but I know enough of them to know that the consensus is that the pussy is snappin and can grab and milk that dick! That's not to say that ALL men like it that way but those that I've encountered like a woman that can work those muscles! That's a big difference from the chick that doesn't know anything about those muscles except for holding her pee! I'm just sayin......
Totally agree!!

Thank you very much!

(quietly...LMFAO....).......2 words:

KEGEL EXERCISE

Ladies, get to flexing!!!

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***MEN, please take note that by exercising this same muscle (the one used to stop your piss short, for whatever reason...lol) you can prevent prostate problems as well as improve your control of holding back that nut for as long as needed! Just continuously flex the muscle...and do reps as with any other exercise...they can be done ANYTIME...at work, in the shower, driving to and from work, while watching the game...whenever, since it doesnt require you to do any other movement other than flexing and releasing the same muscle that you use to stop your urine stream (bet y'all doing the shit right now....lmao)***

This has been a public service announcement from the Prince from Queens, the view expressed in this post may not reflect the opinions of the rest of the NDN fam but damnit, I read up on it and I'm sharing my knowledge with the hood! Each one teach one! lol
and Ladies, I had an debate with a woman on men doing this same exercise...she claimed we couldnt do such things cause we didnt have the same muscle....then the room got quiet as she read the article I showed her....smh....lol

Laydee Redd said:
There's definitely a difference in pussy as u can see from King Bam's description. LOL. Good pussy is based on ones preference so it's almost impossible for it to be all the same. While some men like it drippin wet, others may prefer it slightly moist (I don't know any of them tho...lol). While some like it tight, others may like to slide right in.
Also, who it's attached to makes a difference. Now, I'm no man by far but I know enough of them to know that the consensus is that the pussy is snappin and can grab and milk that dick! That's not to say that ALL men like it that way but those that I've encountered like a woman that can work those muscles! That's a big difference from the chick that doesn't know anything about those muscles except for holding her pee! I'm just sayin......
In the words of one Connoisseur Richard Pryor, "Their aint no bad Pussy out there. If it is I want try it to give a second opinion"! Others on his level aka " Experienced Cocks men" say that, ain't no pussy worth a Damn, unless the right man is getting it! If the pussy is sitting on the shelf collecting dust, what good is it to anybody?? Other have gone so far as to label the various stages of pussy. It's starting point has been called Twat (indicating little or no experience with dick), then comes pussy (this denotes a basic understanding of the pleasure that it can produce). Subsequent stages after this have been referred to in less flattering terms such as cock & hole. Again, consider the source with all things that you can never be sure of one's life experience. Good or Bad is relative term. Not all of anything is equal. One dude with a short dick & no skills who is unable to satisfy a woman, might consider all pussy bad. There is no way of telling who has skills & who doesn't. The beauty of this thing is that with the right teacher, patience, and in some cases lube & viagra (or a reasonable facsimile), most folk can improve with time; and bad pussy can again become good pussy. Remember this "it ain't the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean"!
ALL I KNOW IS IVE NEVER BEEN PLACED IN THE BAD PUSSY CATEGORY....BUT ITS NOT JUST BASED ON THE SWEET SPOT IN BETWEEN MY LEGS, BUT THE INTELLECTUAL MIND SET OF THE OWNER...WHICH IN RETURN, WILL TURN YOU ON WITH A DIVERSE CONVERSATION, NOT WITH JUST MY SWEET KISSES, OR MY SAVORY SCENT....BUT GOSH DARN IT I KNOW HOW TO WORK IT.....THINK FOR A MIN, WHEN YOU GET WITH SOMEONE AND YOU ARE SO MENTAL STIMULATED AND BAM!!!! Y'ALL DO THE DEED AND ITS SO DAMN GOOD YOU DON'T WANNA RELEASE, YOU JUST WANNA MARINATE IN IT ......AND THE FEELING IS MUTUAL....THATS WHEN YOU KNOW YOU HAVE HAD SOME GOOD PUSSY...JUST SAYIN CTFU!!!!
yeah right....smh

Greg Morton said:
In the words of one Connoisseur Richard Pryor, "Their aint no bad Pussy out there. If it is I want try it to give a second opinion"! Others on his level aka " Experienced Cocks men" say that, ain't no pussy worth a Damn, unless the right man is getting it! If the pussy is sitting on the shelf collecting dust, what good is it to anybody?? Other have gone so far as to label the various stages of pussy. It's starting point has been called Twat (indicating little or no experience with dick), then comes pussy (this denotes a basic understanding of the pleasure that it can produce). Subsequent stages after this have been referred to in less flattering terms such as cock & hole. Again, consider the source with all things that you can never be sure of one's life experience. Good or Bad is relative term. Not all of anything is equal. One dude with a short dick & no skills who is unable to satisfy a woman, might consider all pussy bad. There is no way of telling who has skills & who doesn't. The beauty of this thing is that with the right teacher, patience, and in some cases lube & viagra (or a reasonable facsimile), most folk can improve with time; and bad pussy can again become good pussy. Remember this "it ain't the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean"!
LMAO

Bam said:
u hav all kinds... short, long, , meaty, bony,bald, fuzzy, loose, tight,dry, wet, snappn, silky, bottomless, dwallified, .......n short, u hav all kinds; Yet, tighter or wetter doesn't really mean better. it could b painfully tight or bothersome wet. while ur feelings 4 the owner of that pussy may intensify the pleasure 4 u, i dont think that those feelings r enuff 2 make the pussy good. good pussy is not emotional & does not have feelings attached. it is as it implies.....physical..... its about the pussy. what may b good 2 me, may not feel so good 2 her boyfriend(lol). so with that n mind we can say that all pussy can b made good, & it depends greatly on the pussyfucker. (but what i kno, just my $0.02)

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VIRAL HOT TOPIC: The Woman Who MARRIED Herself Is Now CLAPPING BACK At Haters

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Yasmin Eleby decided to make a committment to herself...with a wedding....and the Internet went off! Now, she's speaking out - revealing why she "married" herself and has no regrets about her choice.  Check it...

 

The flowers were blooming. The band was in its place.  And three ministers were on deck as 10 bridesmaid fluttered down the aisle.  Then came the music....

But when a 40-year-old woman named Yasmin Eleby reached the altar, she stood there in front of a room full of family and friends to make a committment to love herself.  She married herself.  Crazy?  Foolish?  Waste of money?  Yasmin doesn't think so.

"The ceremony is not about me being bitter for not having a man. It wasn’t like, “OK, I’m upset that I’m 40 and don’t have a man.” I wanted to show myself my self-love, my self-worth and my self-respect. It was always about me loving me. When God sends me my husband, he will come, but until then, I’m OK with it just being with me."

After pics from her "Marriage To Self" went viral, trolls came from far and wide to diss and mock Yasmin...thank goodness her self-love, self-worth and self-respect are on fleek. 

She sat down with Demetria Lucas D'oyley of The Root to breakdown how and why the wedding went down, what her friends said (and why they didnt stop her) and why she's NOT BOTHERED by the vicious comments.

Yasmin Eleby: For a few years leading up to my 40th birthday, I’d been joking that if I didn’t have a wedding by 40 that I would just have one myself without a groom. I thought having a wedding ceremony would be a unique way to celebrate my 40th with my family and my friends. And the closer that it got, I realized I had to put up or shut up.

The Root: I’ve been reading the reactions to all the stories on you, and a common comment is, “Where were her friends? They didn’t stop her!” When you told your friends—like, “Hey, guys, I’m going to have a wedding and marry myself!”—what did they say?

Yasmin Eleby: Some of them didn’t believe me. They thought I was joking, but once I explained to them what it would be about, they were supportive.

The Root: When the invites for the ceremony went out to guests, what was their response?

Yasmin Eleby: Not very many people knew it was a wedding. It was kind of a surprise. The invitations just said come celebrate my birthday in a unique way. I invited two of my exes. They were both happy for me. They were excited about it once they got there and realized what was happening.

 

The Root: A lot of people have assumed that marrying yourself was an act of desperation. What exactly was the ceremony about for you?

Yasmin Eleby: The ceremony is not about me being bitter for not having a man. It wasn’t like, “OK, I’m upset that I’m 40 and don’t have a man.” I wanted to show myself my self-love, my self-worth and my self-respect. It was always about me loving me. When God sends me my husband, he will come, but until then, I’m OK with it just being with me.

The Root: What vows did you take during the ceremony?

Yasmin Eleby: The first one was about forgiving myself. We’ve all made mistakes. I had to realize that if I ask for forgiveness, then it’s done. I don’t have to keep dwelling on the past. I can let it go. My second vow was to honor myself as a beautiful, fabulous being, conscious of making decisions for myself and to honor my self-worth. The third vow was love. I made a promise to love myself and to know that the more love I have for myself, the more love I have to share with others.

The Root: This all sounds so sweet, but it’s been received in a much different light. What do you think of the reactions to your ceremony?

Yasmin Eleby: It has been blown way out of proportion. From the few comments that I’ve read, they’re trying to paint me as crazy or bitter about not having a husband, and that is so not the case. I’m not bitter, I‘m not crazy. I’m just a fun-loving unique individual, and I just wanted to do something special and different.

The Root: In hindsight, do you have any regrets about the ceremony?

Yasmin Eleby: Not one.

 

Would you book a wedding hall for yourself?

 

 

 

Photo via The Root/Yasmin Eleby

“LAHH: ATL” Star Mimi Faust REVEALS Nikko’s WIFE Will Appear On The Show + Leslie Jones Rumored To Star In All-Female ‘Ghostbusters’ Remake

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“Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta” star Mimi Faust says she’s DONE with former boyfriend Nikko…you know the guy she made a sex tape with and eventually found out he was MARRIED. Yea him. And she says his wife will be making an appearance on the show this season. Also, “Saturday Night Live” star Leslie Jones is rumored to be joining an all-female cast for a Ghostbusters remake. More inside….

After all she went through last season with her former lover, it appears Mimi Faust has finally had enough of her ex-boyfriend Nikko and his shenanigans and called it quits!

The “LAHH: ATL” star celebrated her 45th birthday at No. 8 nightclub in NYC recently. And while partying it up, rocking a frilly Herve Leger Bregi dress, the reality star chopped it up with CottonKandi.com about the upcoming fourth season of VH1’s highly popular “LAHH: ATL”.

You’ll recall during the last season, a sex tape involving Mimi and her then boyfriend Nikko mysteriously leaked, which caused a firestorm in the media about Mimi’s infamous “shower rod” scene. EVERYONE was talking about it. And soon after, everyone was talking about the fact she made this sex tape….with a MARRIED man, unbeknownst to her at the time (so she says). Turns out, Nikko had been married to a woman (allegedly named Margo Simms) years before they met and kept it a secret for as long as he could, up until he was exposed by the media.

Well, when asked if she was finally done with her ex-lover Nikko for good (cause she seems to have a track record for going back to her exes *coughs* Stevie J *coughs*) she confirmed, “Absolutely. A hundred thousand percent done.” Well good for her.

The mother-of-one was also asked if Nikko's estranged wife would be appearing on the upcoming season of the show, in which she said, “Yes [I can confirm his wife will play a role and will be on the show].” Lordt...
 

Guess we can brace ourselves now for the foolywang material that will come of this. You KNOW ish is going to go 0 to 100....real quick.

We reached out to Mona Scott Young for confirmation and have not yet received a response.

 

In movie news...

 

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“Saturday Night Live” comedian and Top Five star Leslie Jones is rumored to have landed a new gig. According to reports, the actress is in early negotiations to star in an all-female cast of a Ghostbusters remake. And SONY will be backing the new alleged project.

VARIETY reports:

Rumors have swirled for awhile of who Sony had met with for starring roles following the leaked Sony emails that said actresses such as McCarthy, Wiig and Emma Stone had met for roles. Ivan Reitman is producing.

Scheduling still has to be worked out among the actresses, but if deals make, this marks the closest the studio has come to rebooting the franchise in quite some time. It is also unknown who each woman would be playing.

If Leslie Jones does end up on this project, we’re sure she’ll be bringing plenty of laughs.  We're here for it!
 

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First SNEAK PEEK At Yandy Smith & Mendeecees Harris' Baby Girl + Kevin McCall REVEALS Eva Marcille Is Keeping Their Daughter AWAY From Him!

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We have the first sneak peek at Yandy Smith and Mendeecees Harris’ newborn baby girl. Also, Kevin McCall claims his daughter’s mother Eva Marcille has been keeping their daughter Marley Rae away from him and says he has not seen her in over a month! Get the deets inside….

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“Love & Hip Hop New York” stars Yandy Smith and Mendeecees Harris welcomed their precious baby girl hours ago. We already showed you the behind-the-scenes hospital pics of the two gearing up for their preciousness’ arrival. And now they have shared the first sneak peek at their new bundle of joy.

Proud dad Mendeecees, clearly head over heels in love with little one shared the first shot of their little one. He captioned, “This Hand Will Always Be There For You Until The Day I Die.. Love You & Happy Birthday My princess”.

Aww! Glad Yandy and baby are doing well. Congrats again to the couple!

In other baby news....

 

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Singer-songwriter Kevin McCall is going through it with his daughter's mother/"Top Model" star Eva Marcille. And it isn't the first time these two have come to social media blows.

Kevin claims Eva will not let him see his daughter Marley Rae because she fears for her life. Say what? Well, she did file a restraining order on him last April after he allegedly went ape sh*t on her during an argument as she held their daughter. Yikes.

Now they're back at it again...on social media. The former couple's latest "drama" started when Eva posted a "kissy lips" emoji under a pic of Wale on Instagram. We assume Kevin got into his feelings and posted a message in Wale's comments, alluding the rapper had herpes. He later apologized to Wale. Then Kevin posted a few videos to his Instagram about a conversation he had with Eva about visiting his daughter. The convo went something like this:

Sighs...He did delete them from his account, but of course, it was reposted for all to see.

Soon after, he posted the pic atop holding his daughter with the caption:

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"See you 2019 my Princess. God got it. I surrender it ALL to him it is out of my hands. Father in the name of Jesus I relingquish it all yo YOU. Bless my children. Life's not fair."

2019?

This morning, Kevin called into Power 105's The Breakfast Club to clear the air a bit on his recent social media antics. During his chat with the radio hosts, he said he never said Wale had herpes. He explained, "All I said was, ‘I’d never be jealous of a man with herpes. Drops the mic.’ But whoever got offended by it, that’s up to them". Ummmm same difference.

He added, "I insinuated it. So think about it, if the shoe fits, wear it Cinderella". Alrighty...

He also said after having a dispute with Eva, she threatened him by saying he would not see his daughter until 2019 and that's why he posted that Instagram post about not seeing his daughter. He revealed the last time he saw his daughter was about a month ago and, in so many words, he hopes that they can work on their co-parenting skills for Marley's sake.

 

Check it:

This guy is doing the MOST....

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