Ok so I was talking with some more mature women and one exclaimed, " I wasted my good pussy on some bullshit!" So I got to thinking...
first I remembered that book called Good Pussy. I read it was very interesting
then I started wondering...Is there a difference in pussy? Isn't it all just the same?
Is saying a woman has good pussy synonymous with saying I love you so she will give in and give up the goods?
or Is it good because her's is tighter than someone else's or because she knows how to please you?

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I have discussed this topic with men (and some women) and they say each one is different as in taste, smell, texture, wetness, tightness, etc. Lots of women claim to have the "best" pussy--whateva. At the end of the day, no matter how "good" it is, if he is gonna cheat, he will. And to those men, its only but a meat sleeve anyway. I believe it is whom the pussy is attached to that matters most.
u hav all kinds... short, long, fat, meaty, bony,bald, fuzzy, loose, tight,dry, wet, snappn, silky, bottomless, dwallified, .......n short, u hav all kinds; Yet, tighter or wetter doesn't really mean better. it could b painfully tight or bothersome wet. while ur feelings 4 the owner of that pussy may intensify the pleasure 4 u, i dont think that those feelings r enuff 2 make the pussy good. good pussy is not emotional & does not have feelings attached. it is as it implies.....physical..... its about the pussy. what may b good 2 me, may not feel so good 2 her boyfriend(lol). so with that n mind we can say that all pussy can b made good, & it depends greatly on the pussyfucker. (but what i kno, just my $0.02)
shame on you LMAO!

Bam said:
u hav all kinds... short, long, fat, meaty, bony,bald, fuzzy, loose, tight,dry, wet, snappn, silky, bottomless, dwallified, .......n short, u hav all kinds; Yet, tighter or wetter doesn't really mean better. it could b painfully tight or bothersome wet. while ur feelings 4 the owner of that pussy may intensify the pleasure 4 u, i dont think that those feelings r enuff 2 make the pussy good. good pussy is not emotional & does not have feelings attached. it is as it implies.....physical..... its about the pussy. what may b good 2 me, may not feel so good 2 her boyfriend(lol). so with that n mind we can say that all pussy can b made good, & it depends greatly on the pussyfucker. (but what i kno, just my $0.02)
i kno, i kno, i kno (with chin to chest), but thats real talk.......what can i say, my youthful days are filled with memories & actions that do not fit my present, but are tailored 2 my past. most of the things i use to do without thought, without regards 2 any1else. You could say i was that mafu##er, that daughterfu##er, that girlfriendfu##er, (prolly y im single now~ over the years i've been with 2 many females who were n relationships~& i find it hard, hard 2 give the whole of me & i really dont want 2 b n a 1/2 ass relationship) so i stand yet on another battlefield within myself, but the good thing is that no matter the outcome (or income for that matter) i will celebrate, i will eat, drink & b BAM!!!!! until i die!

LatinTemptress said:
shame on you LMAO!

There's definitely a difference in pussy as u can see from King Bam's description. LOL. Good pussy is based on ones preference so it's almost impossible for it to be all the same. While some men like it drippin wet, others may prefer it slightly moist (I don't know any of them tho...lol). While some like it tight, others may like to slide right in.
Also, who it's attached to makes a difference. Now, I'm no man by far but I know enough of them to know that the consensus is that the pussy is snappin and can grab and milk that dick! That's not to say that ALL men like it that way but those that I've encountered like a woman that can work those muscles! That's a big difference from the chick that doesn't know anything about those muscles except for holding her pee! I'm just sayin......
Totally agree!!

Thank you very much!

(quietly...LMFAO....).......2 words:

KEGEL EXERCISE

Ladies, get to flexing!!!

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***MEN, please take note that by exercising this same muscle (the one used to stop your piss short, for whatever reason...lol) you can prevent prostate problems as well as improve your control of holding back that nut for as long as needed! Just continuously flex the muscle...and do reps as with any other exercise...they can be done ANYTIME...at work, in the shower, driving to and from work, while watching the game...whenever, since it doesnt require you to do any other movement other than flexing and releasing the same muscle that you use to stop your urine stream (bet y'all doing the shit right now....lmao)***

This has been a public service announcement from the Prince from Queens, the view expressed in this post may not reflect the opinions of the rest of the NDN fam but damnit, I read up on it and I'm sharing my knowledge with the hood! Each one teach one! lol
and Ladies, I had an debate with a woman on men doing this same exercise...she claimed we couldnt do such things cause we didnt have the same muscle....then the room got quiet as she read the article I showed her....smh....lol

Laydee Redd said:
There's definitely a difference in pussy as u can see from King Bam's description. LOL. Good pussy is based on ones preference so it's almost impossible for it to be all the same. While some men like it drippin wet, others may prefer it slightly moist (I don't know any of them tho...lol). While some like it tight, others may like to slide right in.
Also, who it's attached to makes a difference. Now, I'm no man by far but I know enough of them to know that the consensus is that the pussy is snappin and can grab and milk that dick! That's not to say that ALL men like it that way but those that I've encountered like a woman that can work those muscles! That's a big difference from the chick that doesn't know anything about those muscles except for holding her pee! I'm just sayin......
In the words of one Connoisseur Richard Pryor, "Their aint no bad Pussy out there. If it is I want try it to give a second opinion"! Others on his level aka " Experienced Cocks men" say that, ain't no pussy worth a Damn, unless the right man is getting it! If the pussy is sitting on the shelf collecting dust, what good is it to anybody?? Other have gone so far as to label the various stages of pussy. It's starting point has been called Twat (indicating little or no experience with dick), then comes pussy (this denotes a basic understanding of the pleasure that it can produce). Subsequent stages after this have been referred to in less flattering terms such as cock & hole. Again, consider the source with all things that you can never be sure of one's life experience. Good or Bad is relative term. Not all of anything is equal. One dude with a short dick & no skills who is unable to satisfy a woman, might consider all pussy bad. There is no way of telling who has skills & who doesn't. The beauty of this thing is that with the right teacher, patience, and in some cases lube & viagra (or a reasonable facsimile), most folk can improve with time; and bad pussy can again become good pussy. Remember this "it ain't the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean"!
ALL I KNOW IS IVE NEVER BEEN PLACED IN THE BAD PUSSY CATEGORY....BUT ITS NOT JUST BASED ON THE SWEET SPOT IN BETWEEN MY LEGS, BUT THE INTELLECTUAL MIND SET OF THE OWNER...WHICH IN RETURN, WILL TURN YOU ON WITH A DIVERSE CONVERSATION, NOT WITH JUST MY SWEET KISSES, OR MY SAVORY SCENT....BUT GOSH DARN IT I KNOW HOW TO WORK IT.....THINK FOR A MIN, WHEN YOU GET WITH SOMEONE AND YOU ARE SO MENTAL STIMULATED AND BAM!!!! Y'ALL DO THE DEED AND ITS SO DAMN GOOD YOU DON'T WANNA RELEASE, YOU JUST WANNA MARINATE IN IT ......AND THE FEELING IS MUTUAL....THATS WHEN YOU KNOW YOU HAVE HAD SOME GOOD PUSSY...JUST SAYIN CTFU!!!!
yeah right....smh

Greg Morton said:
In the words of one Connoisseur Richard Pryor, "Their aint no bad Pussy out there. If it is I want try it to give a second opinion"! Others on his level aka " Experienced Cocks men" say that, ain't no pussy worth a Damn, unless the right man is getting it! If the pussy is sitting on the shelf collecting dust, what good is it to anybody?? Other have gone so far as to label the various stages of pussy. It's starting point has been called Twat (indicating little or no experience with dick), then comes pussy (this denotes a basic understanding of the pleasure that it can produce). Subsequent stages after this have been referred to in less flattering terms such as cock & hole. Again, consider the source with all things that you can never be sure of one's life experience. Good or Bad is relative term. Not all of anything is equal. One dude with a short dick & no skills who is unable to satisfy a woman, might consider all pussy bad. There is no way of telling who has skills & who doesn't. The beauty of this thing is that with the right teacher, patience, and in some cases lube & viagra (or a reasonable facsimile), most folk can improve with time; and bad pussy can again become good pussy. Remember this "it ain't the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean"!
LMAO

Bam said:
u hav all kinds... short, long, , meaty, bony,bald, fuzzy, loose, tight,dry, wet, snappn, silky, bottomless, dwallified, .......n short, u hav all kinds; Yet, tighter or wetter doesn't really mean better. it could b painfully tight or bothersome wet. while ur feelings 4 the owner of that pussy may intensify the pleasure 4 u, i dont think that those feelings r enuff 2 make the pussy good. good pussy is not emotional & does not have feelings attached. it is as it implies.....physical..... its about the pussy. what may b good 2 me, may not feel so good 2 her boyfriend(lol). so with that n mind we can say that all pussy can b made good, & it depends greatly on the pussyfucker. (but what i kno, just my $0.02)

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COMING SOON: ‘Get Hard’ Trailer Starring Kevin Hart & Will Ferrell + “A Different World” Coming To Netflix!

A new trailer for the upcoming comedy Get Hard, starring Kevin Hart and Will Ferrell, has been released. Watch it inside and get deets on “A Different World” coming to Netflix….

Following his highly successful film The Wedding Ringer, Kevin Hart is back with another funny flick. This time, he has teamed up with comedian Will Ferrell to bring the laughs in their new comedy Get Hard.

In the movie, Kevin plays an “incarceration expert” Darnell, who helps millionaire hedge fund manager James (Will Ferrell) prepare for a jail stint in San Quentin after he's nailed for fraud. Little did James know, Darnell knows nothing about being incarcerated. He’s a hard-working small business owner who has never received a parking ticket, let alone been to prison. The judge gives James 30 days to get his affairs in order and Darnell must have him "prison ready" before he heads to the big house.

Get Hard is expected to hit theaters March 27th, the same day Kevin launches his “What Now” world comedy tour in Florida.

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In case you missed....

Despite the sex scandal surrounding Bill Cosby, the hit 90s television sitcom “A Different World” is headed to Netflix. The on-demand Internet streaming media platform announced they’re adding four dozen new items, and “A Different World” made the cut.

The complete six seasons will be available for your viewing pleasure beginning March 15th! Get ready to grab the kiddies and introduce them to some real television.

Unfortunatley for Cosby, Netflix has not had a change of heart about airing his special Bill Cosby at 77.

BONUS:

Idris Elba is ready to get back to work! The sexy British star has started filming the upcoming season of "Luther." No word on when the new season will premiere, but we'll keep you posted.

 

EXTRAS:

1. If you're a fan of Omar Tyree books, get excited! Dear White People producer Effie Brown is set to produce a film adaptation of his critically acclaimed Flyy Girl book trilogy. We're SO here for it!

 

 

 

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News Anchor TJ Holmes CELEBRATES His 5th WEDDING Anniversary, REVEALS Why He Got Married & Why He Thinks Some Men Haven't...Yet

In celebration of his 5th wedding anniversary, ABC NEWS personality TJ Holmes posted an insightful op-ed about the benefits of marriage and  reveals why he got married.  Read it inside... 

 

ABC NEWS anchor TJ Holmes celebrated his 5-year wedding anniversary over the weekend, and part of the celebration included a lovely op-ed about his wife Marilee and why he got married.  TJ wrote the piece last year (during year four of their marriage) saying, "In every way, I'm better off because I'm married. So, for me, a successful marriage has revolved around this principle: I like who I am with her."

In one candid revelation, TJ opened up about the life factors that keep some men from walking down the aisle and he says why those factors are really - nonfactors.  In fact, he believes marriage helps a person reach success. 

I, like many other men, thought that I wanted to reach a certain level of success before marriage. You know, make the right amount of money, get the right job, the right car, the right crib, etc., and perhaps "sow the royal oats." Now, I firmly believe the success we seek can come a lot quicker with a partner helping along the way. Believe me, my ego is as big as anyone's, but recognizing my own deficiencies, admitting to myself that I need help and accepting that help have all been critical to our success. We're only on year No. 4, but I shudder to think of the kind of man I might be if I wasn't married these past four years.

Check out TJ Holmes reasons for jumping the broom below, and give us your reaction.  Do you agree with him?

 

"What the hell was I thinking? I was 31, single, making good money and living in Atlanta, a city that's been described as "happy hunting" for a single guy. I was living the life my grandfather told me to live when I was a small child: "Why get married and try to make one woman happy ... when you can stay single and make them all happy?" Granddad would have been proud.

Lately, though, I've been trying to make one woman happy. One woman. Since 2010, I've woken up to, eaten my meals with, vacationed with, had sex with, done everything with the same one woman.

As my four-year anniversary approached, I started ruminating about my relationship and wondering how we'd made it this far. Of course, four years of marriage isn't a long time, yet some don't even make it to this point, including many of my close friends. And, I'll admit to my own moments of self-doubt about how I'd handle commitment right after the glorious height of my singledom. We hadn’t had any catastrophic issues come up in our marriage, but we had dealt with living in separate cities, career changes, the birth of our daughter, relocation, as well as some other marital challenges that are par for the course.

Thing is, not only is my marriage still intact, it's actually working pretty well, and that made me uncomfortable. You see, I didn't fully understand why my marriage was flourishing, and I feared that if I didn't understand what we were doing right, how would we know what to keep doing?

Well, I think I've figured it out, and my eureka moment came just this week as I was putting together a business email. I asked my wife to review it, and she thought the tone of the email was too aggressive, confrontational and negative. She was right. Her input stopped me from making the mistake of hitting send. That innocuous example is emblematic of our entire relationship. In all I do, I have a partner looking out for me, advising me, keeping me on track and stopping me from making a mistake, no matter how great or small.

Also, I'm still the same guy at my core, but look at what has changed in my life since I got married: My family and I are closer, my individual net worth has gone up every year since we met, I've learned a second language, I'm healthier, I use the n-word less, I listen to Sunday church service more, I'm a better friend, I'm more forgiving than I used to be, I'm more involved in charitable work.

In every way, I'm better off because I'm married. So, for me, a successful marriage has revolved around this principle: I like who I am with her.

My pastor always reminds me: You should get around people who make you say to yourself, "I gotta do better." I married the person who makes me say that to myself everyday. I want her to be proud of me. Her presence is constant motivation. I don't always succeed, but I'm always at least trying to do the right thing or improve, and in doing so, I've become a better son, friend, journalist, citizen and husband.

I, like many other men, thought that I wanted to reach a certain level of success before marriage. You know, make the right amount of money, get the right job, the right car, the right crib, etc., and perhaps "sow the royal oats." Now, I firmly believe the success we seek can come a lot quicker with a partner helping along the way. Believe me, my ego is as big as anyone's, but recognizing my own deficiencies, admitting to myself that I need help and accepting that help have all been critical to our success. We're only on year No. 4, but I shudder to think of the kind of man I might be if I wasn't married these past four years.

To put it another way, she upgraded me. It's not just a matter of "switching my neckties to purple labels," but Beyoncé may have been exactly right that "your dynasty ain't complete without a chief like" Marilee.

 

SPEAK ON IT

 

Photos via TJ Holmes Twitter

CIAA PARTIES: Lil Kim, Diddy, Keke Palmer, Quincy & More Party It Up In Charlotte

Many YBF celebs flocked to Charlotte, NC for the CIAA festivities this weekend. Peep the round up of party pics inside….

Over the weekend, Charlotte, NC was flooded with celebs as they made their rounds to CIAA parties.

Friday night, new mom Lil Kim left little Royal Reign behind to party it up alongside Diddy as they hosted at CAMEO nightclub.  The Queen Bee slipped into a skintight Angel Brinks cheetah print catsuit paired with gold Versace heels before hitting the club scene. And she was ready for the "turn up" as seen below, dancing alongside Rocko:

 

 

A video posted by DON ROCKO A-1 (@rocko2real) on Feb 28, 2015 at 8:29pm PST

 

We see you Kimmy.

Before starting his hosting duties, Diddy pre-gamed with a bottle of Ciroc along with French Montana, rapper Chinx and the CokeBoy President.

Elsewhere...

Keke Palmer and Quincy Brown were on the promo trail this weekend in Charlotte. The twosome conducted a private screening of their upcoming drama Brotherly Love at Studio Movie Grill.

Brotherly Love will also star Romeo Miller, "Empire" star Malik Yoba, Tia Mowry’s husband Cory Hardrict, singer Macy Gray, “Hit The Floor” actress Logan Browning, comedian Faizon Love and more.

Below is a short synopsis of the film:

Set on the backdrop of Philadelphia's famed Overbrook High School, we track the lives of the nations number one high school basketball player Sergio Taylor as he deals with the early pressures of hood fame. His older brother June (Cory Hardrict) who had basketball dreams of his own, but after the death of their father he resorted to the allure of the streets to fill the financial void in the home. Finally, their sister Jackie (Keke Palmer) the princess of the bunch who has strong ambitions to pursue a musical career, but is suddenly side tracked by an unexpected encounter with teenage love. This story takes place in a city where the life expectancy of a black male is twenty-five years of age. A city that had over four hundred murders last year alone, and where the unemployment rate is at an all time high. This story is painted with a kaleidoscope of music, sports, and characters that will bring the last two generation closer together by allowing them to see the inner lives of our youths in the journey of Brotherly Love.

It's expected to hit theaters April 24th.

While posing it up for the photogs, the upcoming Scream Queens star rocked a green Jonathan Simkhai dress, Chelsea Paris Footwear sandals topped with a printed Open Ceremony jacket. Cute look.

Will you be hitting the theaters next month to see Botherly Love?

"Empire" star Jussie Smollett was in Charlotte this weekend for a good cause.

The young star rocked a “Black Lives Matter” shirt at the CIAA FanFest event about knowing your status. He was on hand to encourage folks to sign up for free health/vitals screenings and join the meet and greet.

Also at the event....

Ginuwine hit the stage to serenade the ladies with some of his classic hits.

R&B singer K-Ci from Jodeci (who recently released a new video for their track "Every Moment") hit the stage alongside the Ginuwine and the crowd went bananas.

Hmm...maybe Ginuwine's preparing for a comeback as well? We shall see....

 

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