Can It REALLY Be Better The Second Time Around?
Okay Fam.....
Another burning question crossed my mind last night while laying in bed listening to the radio.
Shaalimar's song "Second Time Around" came on, and it got me to thinking about something:
Suppose you're in a relationshp with someone and two years into it, you find out that your mate did alot of underhanded things. You break up, and move on.
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Three years later, you run into your ex, and you see that he/she has changed. They're still single, but they've matured a great deal and have mended their old ways in their quest to to be a better person. Old feelings arise between the two of you and you decide to give it another shot.
Two questions:
1. With everything that's transpired between the two of you, do you and your ex- take another chance and re-kindle that old flame?
2. Can a relationship that didn't work out the first time for whatever reason(s), actually be better the second time around?
Bottom line...does this person deserve a second chance?
Holla at your Queen!!!!
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Permalink Reply by Michigan's Finest on -
New York to your first question NO we will not because she has a boyfriend now!
To your second question in my past experience if a woman did me wrong once I'm not going to allow her to do that to me again!
"Fool me once shame on YOU....fool me twice shame on ME!!"
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Permalink Reply by Bam on -
My X & I tried to retry.....it worked like a pacth job on the water basket(for a lil while only)
Sometimes (not that often) it is worth another time around, yet most time it does not work. I would say to keep in mind the reason y u 1st parted ways & take n2 consideration the state u were both in then as oppose to now...(somethings should have changed....or else ur walking n2 the same'o same.) tjm$.02
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