ok...what up fam....got a question for you out there....

How is a relationship viewed by you.?

Business transaction: Two putting in on finances, live together, "do some stuff together" and hollar at each other like homies.....


Regular: All of the above but with love, respect, and also treat each other as King and Queen of their world together......goals, ambitions, motivation to do for the other as they would have them do unto you....


You be the judge....need all opinions from everyone!

Money o Love!!! What is everyone seeking and why???

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NO LOVE YET: Jessie J GUSHES Over Luke James, "He's Amazing...But I'm Not In Love...Yet"

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Pop and R&B couple Luke James and Jessie J spent Thanksgiving together in Berlin. But Jessie isn't a girl in love...yet.  Peep the pics, and find out what she revealed about falling in love to GLAMOUR.

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Pop singer Jessie J, who's "Bang Bang" track hit #1 on the Hot 100, spent Thanksgiving in Berlin, promoting her latest album, alongside her boyfriend, R&B crooner Luke James. 

In the latest issue of Glamour Magazine, the Uk-bred singer (shown above in Fernsehwerft Osthafen, Berlin) opens up about her career ambitions and reveals that she's willing and ready to fall in love.  Could Luke be the one?  Time will tell. Here are the highlights from the January 2015 issue:

On whether she's in love:

"Am I in love right now? I'm working on being in love. That's the truth…I don't want to sound mean. But I'm not in love….yet. I'm learning how to fall in love"

On what that involves:

"Someone who can be stupid with me. Being in love is when you can be yourself as if you were on your own, but they're there."

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On whether current boyfriend, Luke James, could be this guy:

"Maybe. Why not? I'm nearly 27 and I'm at a point in my life where anyone I'm allowing to give that part of myself to, I want to give the chance for it to be forever. And he's really amazing."

On writing songs for others including Miley Cyrus and Alicia Keys:

"Party in the USA paid my rent for, like, three years. Actually it was longer than that. That's where I get most of my money. I write songs. I'm a singer. I love doing endorsements and stuff, but that's all added on."


Speaking of Luke... 

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He's in route to New Orleans where he'll perform at The Metropolitan on tonight, and will hit the stage for the Bayou Classic Fan Fest on Saturday.



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THANKSGIVING SURPRISE: Frank Ocean Drops New Track "Memrise"

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It's been a while since we've heard from Frank Ocean.  But he dropped a suprise on his fans super late Thanksgiving night/the following morning in the form of a new song.  Check out "Memrise" inside....


Back in April, Frank ocean said his sophomore album follow up to his Channel Orange debut was almost complete.  So it looks like he's giving fans a peek at what to expect from album #2.

Frank posted the track Memrise" to his Tumblr page, along with the lyrics:

I memorized the wayward expressions
Never look down
Never let you see me down
I memorized the way no directions
Can I come over now
I’d like to stay a little while
I memorized your body exposed
I could fuck you all night long
From a memory alone

I never forget a face
Don’t go plastic on me
Nothing’s set in stone
You’re not dipped in gold
Dipped in gold
You can’t breathe if you’re dipped in gold
You are not on paper
You are not a copy
You’re so, you’re so..so thick, so thick

Check out the song below.  You feelin' it?


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NFL Player Devon Still’s Daughter’s Mother CLAIMS He Owes CHILD SUPPORT For Leah, Devon Issues Statement + Floyd Mayweather JUSTIFIES Blasting Miss Jackson Over Abortion

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The mother of 4-year-old Leah Still, who’s battling pediatric cancer, is speaking out. And she’s saying her father, Cincinnati Bengals baller Devon Still, owes child support for their cancer-stricken daughter. Also, Floyd Mayweather is justifying blasting his ex-fiancee Miss Jackson for aborting their twins. And his reason is...interesting. Get the deets inside….

We first learned about 4-year-old Leah Still and her battle with neuroblastoma, a rare pediatric cancer, after her father Cincinnati Bengals defensive tackle Devon Still was cut from the team. A few days later, the NFL resigned him to the practice squad so he could continue to pay for her medical bills.

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But apparently, he owes Leah’s mother, Channing Smythe, money for back child support for the past four months. According to her, Devon got upset after he asked to have Leah moved to Cincinnati from Delaware so he could be closer to him, but she refused. So, she says that’s the reason he stopped giving her money.

She told the Daily News,

“I don’t consider him a deadbeat dad. I know he loves and cares for his daughter and he is there for her. I just need him to help me financially.”

Leah was diagnosed in June of this year. Channing claims she has not received financial help from Devin since July and has had to turn to public assistance to help make ends meet.

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Channing called up famed attorney Gloria Alfred to represent her. Gloria issued a letter to the NFL asking the league to investigate if Devon is in violation of its Personal Conduct Policy by failing to pay support for his daughter. In a declaration accompanying the letter addressed to NFL Vice President Jeffrey Pash, Channing writes,

“I don’t think it is fair that Devon Still, who is Leah’s father, has refused to pay any child support for her for the months of August, September, October and November of this year. “

Also in the declaration, she reveals she’s unable to work because caring for Leah requires full-time attention and that is the reason she needs the extra assistance from Devon. She claims she was almost to the point of homelessness and had to move in with a friend to keep from being out on the street.

The thing is….there’s no court order requiring Devon to pay since the two had agreed on an unofficial financial arrangement.

"I don’t feel that it was right for me to move her. [Delaware] is where all her friends and family are and this is where we have been building our life. He was very upset about that and that’s when he stopped giving me money."

Now…Channing has started the court ordered child support process, but they have yet to reach an agreement.

Rather than bash his child’s mother in the media, Devon issued a mature response to her claims, where he said,

"I am not going to retaliate against the mother of my daughter ... I am going to continue to allow the court system to handle this matter, as it has been doing these past couple of months."

Devon and Channing called in quits in April 2010 and he now engaged to another woman named Asha.


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We’re sure you remember the shocking revelation made by Floyd Mayweather that his ex-fiancée Shantel Jackson ("Miss Jackson") aborted twins they were expecting, posting a picture of the ultrasound on social media. Now, he’s speaking out and he’s justifying his actions.

According to the boxing champ, he was justified in blasting Miss Jackson (who is currently dating Nelly) on social media because they’re both public figures and they aren’t really entitled to privacy. Oh?

Miss Jackson filed a lawsuit (backed by attorney Gloria Alfred) suing Floyd for assault, battery, defamation, invasion of privacy, intentional infliction of emotional distress, harassment and more. Floyd is fighting back in hopes to have the case dismissed and he's specifically gunning after the invasion of privacy claim. In legal documents, Floyd says he was entitled to post about their personal lives because they live their lives in the public eye. He said,

“Both parties are public figures. Abortion is a public issue. A public figure involved with another public figure in a public relationship can expect publicity, not privacy, about why it ends.”

THIS will only get more interesting....

Photos: Getty/Devon's IG/Elizabeth Frantz, PennLive

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