Being Too Nice and Fighting Back
These are some thoughts I had on dealing with bogus people and when it comes time to check them. Remember you always have a choice and you have a right to put your foot down ...... And put your foot up in if need be
Sometimes we are way too nice and accommodating with difficult, stressful, abusive and negative people. They do not have our best interests at heart yet we look out for their best interests. Whatever that mindset is and where ever it comes from we need to reprogram ourselves and stop doing it.
Now I am not talking about a physical impact but roll with what I'm saying for a minute. When you have to fight the first punch or kick is the hardest to do. Your opponent doesn't want you to fight back because in the back of their mind they know you have a good chance of beating them so they do as much intimidation as possible. (Their self confidence is never as high as they pretend it to be) But make that first punch. Follow up with another. And keep at it until your opponent is down for the count. Become good at fighting that person because eventually you will have them whipped to where they are no longer on your level or they have to respect the fact that they cannot beat you and they have to leave you alone. For women don't worry about him getting mad. The truth will always piss off fake people. For the men don't worry about hurting her feelings. If she was really concerned about her feelings she wouldn't have been coming at you like that.
Bogus men get mad and go off then deflate and make you feel sorry for them. It's to take down your defenses and get him back into your good graces so he can continue to run game.
Bogus women know that a guy has a soft spot for her tears and pain so all she has to do is make a man feel like crap for making her feel bad and it's right back to her walking all over him until he gets mad again then diffuse him with more tears then it's right back to business as usual. Recognize game and don't put up with it.
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Permalink Reply by Jewess on -
Man. I am amazed. A man admitted this. The world is coming to an end!! But for real, recognizing the game us the difficult part. As much as I love my husband his game is really clear. My kindness and love was mistaken for weakness. But I learned my lesson. When I love I love hard and when I fight I fight to the finish.
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Permalink Reply by WonderLove on -
Wow...this sounds draining, Well, that's why we live and learn.
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