I have debated about this question for years. I have had many friendships with guys and they have been great and long-lasting without any type of romantic discussion. However, I have had situations where I thought I was having a platonic relationship with a guy only later to find out that he wants to be more than friends or has always had a crush on me. So tell me, is it that women can have 'we are just friends' on the brain while the guy is thinking 'wonder when I can take it to the next level'? I think both parties can be on the same level, but you tell me what you think...

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yeah lac and tracy!!! lets do some tv 1 shit!!! ya'll can produce it with naturel and cousin ed. We'll call that shit 'MOODY BLACKS OUT'! LOL!!! im just sayin though..good girls, hold ya head up!!!

Cindy said:
Damn..WTF Moody? LOL..I can’t even be mad at that. I’m with you Lac..This does need to be broadcasted-lol..Somebody get TV 1 on the line and put Moody’s ass on Black Men Revealed.

mr.moody said:
guys have caught up to woman with b.s. like tracy asked "are we puttin men in a box?"..alot of women are..so now, if u a wolf in sheeps clothing..what would u do? u would find a miserable ass, caught up in her own indepedence, thinks that men aint shit kinda woman and do what? BEFRIEND HER!!..its not that u want to be friends..its just that ur patient enough to 'show' her that u are diffrent. After a couple of dates of u never disagreeing with her, co signing her thoughts that men aint shit(by now shes sayin 'why cant more men be like you?"), and not hitting on her..shes ripe for the picking...u blow that back out, she gets attached..you then reveal the true wolf thats been hiding under the sheeps skin!...its just that simple! now shes more bitter! and turning more into a wacko feminist that is now so heavily dependent on her financial status and her worldly accomplishments..that they are the opening statements that she spews to any man she meets! she now has turned herself into a nutcase..she blames it on the man, but like i keep saying..thats all she can attract with her type of attitude. It useta be that us fellas liked a woman with a bit of attitude, a good job and at least basic bed skills..we would tolerate it. Men done wised up..we'drather kick it with the strippers and the hoodrats..at least we know we can hit and not have to deal with they shit! Id rather be doin well and deal with a low paid female with crazy ambition and drive(that means shes going places if u just have her back!!), with a touch of down home "i aint no slave,but imma serve my man" kind of mentality, who looks for reasons to smile and not frown, and can admit that men are not dogs if women are not cats! Give me her over the crazy ass ultra liberated "dont hold doors for me!" chick.She can keep her money, her cars and shove her degree right up her ass because of her attitude! A lot of ur 'friends can really turn out to be ur king if u dont anticipate it. Just chill!..think of it like this ladies..how many sisters have u meant at school, church, the job..that u were just cordial to but then it turned into a real sisterhood kinship?..u werent looking for another sista,but things happen for a reason..same thing with males..if it progresses..it will..if not, at least u got a homie. I feel sorry for good women who cant find happiness(and there are a lot of good women!!..im not on that all women aint shit thing..i'll save that for the others)..they cant find it not because men are dogs..but because men have put them in the same catagorie as the nutcase women. If u a good woman and u single('specially if u fine!!)..brothas instantly think u crazy!..yall can thank ur own gender for that! yall say men are intimidated by ur success..NOT!! we love it! believe me..but you put it in our face more than u put tits and ass in our face..and that gets tired. and stop that bullshit(for all u crazy broads..because u know u hate a man who constanly puts his success in ur face!..double standard at its finest!)..so fellas..if u got a good woman as a friend.rspect that! if she sees a jewel in u, it might pop off but dont press it..do things for her because she deserves it and not to put ur self in good standing. And to the pshyco broad..after u get home, park the beemer and let that high price weave down, take off all of ur gucci and prada, pull out the contacts, wipe off all of that ridiculous make-up and read a good pro-woman book by OPRAH, TAKE A GOOD LOOK IN THE MIRROR!..who are u without all the smoke and mirrors? probly just a self loathing, confused, angry ass person who need a man to throw under the bus to cover up ur own shortcomings. Anyway, after u remove all that is fake about u and find out who u are..HOLLA AT ME!!...i know a lot of guys. i might be able to find a 'FRIEND' for you. till then....peace!

Naturel said:
Moody, ay, I wish you could really put that info out there for real on "Black Men Revealed" or whatever/wherever women are listening, because you laid down the truth. A lot of women got it so into their heads about us, but not even touching the surface. But it's easier to follow what you have been hearing all your life and saying the same shit you been hearing for years. Your dialogue will be copied and printed homie. I don't know where I'm going to post it yet (lol, but more people need to read what you wrote. For real... I can't let this one die.
Ay Moody, I was serious about this needing attention. I went to TV ONE's website to put in your dialogue when I was directed here: http://www.tvoneonline.com/inside_tvone/show_ideas.asp I think you should pitch a show idea. I know it's off track for what I was trying to set up on Black Men Revealed, but you got great knowledge, a great following and growing, very interesting topics that can be view from different aspects when everyone gives their point of views, and most importantly "WHAT HAVE YOU GOT TO LOOSE?" They can only say yes or no. Feel me. I am going to still get this topic to Black Men Revealed somehow, but since I got pointed to this info, why not use it? Get busy homeboy. Somebody need to get the real out there, who else is better to try it? out.
Ok, I sent this to Black Men Revealed and black voices http://www.blackvoices.com/blogs/2008/08/18/the-brothers-behind-bla... so I hope this is discussed, but hey, if not, at least more people will be directed to the site for more views and understanding. ok, i'm done.
Good networking Lac..Moody, Ed..I think Lac needs to be put on payroll-lol..

"Lac" said:
Ok, I sent this to Black Men Revealed and black voices http://www.blackvoices.com/blogs/2008/08/18/the-brothers-behind-bla... so I hope this is discussed, but hey, if not, at least more people will be directed to the site for more views and understanding. ok, i'm done.
im on it lac! 'preciate that cuz!...you tha mofo man!!...hey tracy?...payroll? soon as we get one U and lac is on it!!
Cindy said:
Good networking Lac..Moody, Ed..I think Lac needs to be put on payroll-lol..

"Lac" said:
Ok, I sent this to Black Men Revealed and black voices http://www.blackvoices.com/blogs/2008/08/18/the-brothers-behind-bla... so I hope this is discussed, but hey, if not, at least more people will be directed to the site for more views and understanding. ok, i'm done.
LOL..you know what Moody..yea..aight!
mr.moody said:
im on it lac! 'preciate that cuz!...you tha mofo man!!...hey tracy?...payroll? soon as we get one U and lac is on it!!
Cindy said:
Good networking Lac..Moody, Ed..I think Lac needs to be put on payroll-lol..

"Lac" said:
Ok, I sent this to Black Men Revealed and black voices http://www.blackvoices.com/blogs/2008/08/18/the-brothers-behind-bla... so I hope this is discussed, but hey, if not, at least more people will be directed to the site for more views and understanding. ok, i'm done.
Word.. That was some serious shiznic.. I'm down....
I can bring the fire, I'm not going to agree, mostly, well I'll try, but it's in me to stir up the shit...
Don't forget Cindy, Aish and Kisha, they can bring the men in; and of course where theres mens there's women
Don't forget Shawn, she can moderate the sessions and keep people in check
Don't forget Naturel, the #1 Co-Host, she can flip that neo soul, afro centric knowledge on em from the hip
Don't forget Cousin Ed and Latin Flower, they can find a damn funny a$$ed video or photo for any topic
Hell bring the whole neighborhood......
Nah, I'm good. I appreciate it. I just like to help/see people I've been involved with do BIG thangs. Just give me a shout out or a sandwich or something. lol

Cindy said:
LOL..you know what Moody..yea..aight!
mr.moody said:
im on it lac! 'preciate that cuz!...you tha mofo man!!...hey tracy?...payroll? soon as we get one U and lac is on it!!
Cindy said:
Good networking Lac..Moody, Ed..I think Lac needs to be put on payroll-lol..

"Lac" said:
Ok, I sent this to Black Men Revealed and black voices http://www.blackvoices.com/blogs/2008/08/18/the-brothers-behind-bla... so I hope this is discussed, but hey, if not, at least more people will be directed to the site for more views and understanding. ok, i'm done.
I have plenty of males that are "Just Friends". Sometime men have to be reminded of that especially if their already in a relationship. One thing I know for sure is that, if you know that the male that has have feeling for you (and you the same). Do you really want to mess up that friendship by indulging in that feeling. Because sometimes what you see ain't what you get. I know, I'm speaking from personal experience.

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