What is a real woman?
Replies to This Discussion
-
Permalink Reply by Miss New York on -
Props to Aish...great forum my king!!!!
Moody, as always, your Queen NY bows down to you. In my eyes, you hit the nail square on the head with your response and I have to say, coming from a REAL woman in her own way, shape and form, it's sooo refreshing to hear a REAL man speak the truth on this subject. THANK YOU!!!
In my quest to not take anything away from Moody's response, I just want to point this out...to actually ask the question of what's a real woman, you really can't. That's like saying this person's the average American. Each woman is different in her own right, so you really can't categorize. What one person may consider a trait that makes he real, another might see it as a weakness.And to the brothas out there who are constantly complaning that they can't find a real woman, has it ever dawned on you that maybe, JUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUST maybe you're all looking in all the wrong places at all the wrong women???? Hmmmmmm....
IJS...
mr.moody said:DAMN!! u just gon' join up and come straight into the hood with some heat, huh?! I LUV IT!!...aye lady,i gotta question for u..why do think men are sayin they cant find a real woman? and what do u mean all they describe is a slave?!. surely u dont mean that a brotha wants a woman that can cook and clean?..thats not a slave is it?..i mean, are brothas asking for a woman that listens? one that can admit when shes wrong? id like to know what u define a 'real slave' as. On any note,heres (in my humble opinion) what a think a 'real' woman is..
1-one that is secure in her life choices, whether they be popular or unpopular
2-one that is independent, but doesnt feel the need to let u know how independent she is 15 times a day
3-one that can admit she needs a man and not let that admission render her mindless or without her own will
4-one that is comfortable in her own skin, with her own grade of hair and her natural stature..one who can look in the mirror and say "im hot"!..as is..with no make up, push up bras or tummy tucks.
5-one that doesnt walk around as a bitter, angry man hater just because one or two guys have shitted on her
6-one that can see her own flaws as well as her mans and strive to correct them
7-one that remains as sexy as she wants to be..not for no man,but for herself!(a man really benefits and flourishes with a woman that does some things for herself and not to impress him)
8-one that will work, cook, clean and not have a problem with it as long as her partner is on the same page
9-one that has the true spirit of an entrepenuer!..theres nothing more funny than a sista with a high powered 'corporate' job (but no business ownership her own) who thinks she is above all of humanity! her swag is all based off of a position that can be given or taken away at someone elses will. (big up to all my homegirls with their own thang outside of the gig!! thats sexy!..whether its big or small..it shows ur mindset and drive..much respect!)
10-one whose not afraid to be a pure freak slut behind doors for their man!
11-one who is charitable!..nothin says 'real woman 'and sexy like donating ur time at a soup kitchen or church..or school..damn!
12-one who knows how to fall back to her man (the boss) but aint taking no undeserved bullshit from him.
13-and finally, one that supports the ambitions of whoever shes with..finacially if neccesary, but most importantly, emotionally and spiritually.(fellas..do the same or U dont deserve it from her!)
That pretty much sums up a real woman to me!...i left a few things out,but im sure my fellow 'neighbors' will pick up the slack!
oh..one more quality to what I consider to be a 'real 'woman..a 'real' woman is not bitter enough to proclaim that there are no 'good men' available..she knows that even if she has no man, that they are out there..shes in no rush, nor is she looking for a man..because a real woman knows that sometimes.. by looking for nothing, she will eventually find everything.
peace.
-
Permalink Reply by Miss New York on
-
Aish, I owe you an apology my QUEEN. When I responded, I referred to you as one of the Kings and for that I am truly sorry.
- ‹ Previous
- 1
- 2
- Next ›
Badge
Young, Black, and Fabulous
WHAT'S BEEF: Did Chris Brown GET PISSY With Meek Mill OVER Rihanna? + Was Chris LASHING Out At Raz B For "ALLEGEDLY" Saying He's Gay?
Chris Brown is involved in a few beefs with other industry artists right now. Get the deets on what's going on between him and Meek Mill and Raz B!
The word on the street is that Meek Mill got his verse on Chris Brown's "Don't Judge Me" dropped from the Fortune disc because Chris got pissy that Meek was hanging with Rihanna at a strip club.
Chris wasn't too pleased that Rihanna stopped by Meek Mill's party at Club Perfections last month so he bumped Meek off the disc. Over the weekend, Meek tweeted,
We shall see how this one play's out. But you know how pissy Chris can be......
And in other Chris beefs..........
Former B2K member Raz B has allegedly written a book called This Boy's Life. We say allegedly because we have not been able to verify existence of the book with the publishing company or Raz B's reps. But rumor has it that the book features explosive allegations about former B2K members (Omarion, Lil' Fizz, J Boog), Bow Wow, Ray J, Chris Stokes and Chris Brown all being gay.
On Chris the book says,
“They say you never know who knows who. Chris Brown didn’t think about that when he attacked me online. I have a friend that’s very close to Chris’ camp who told me that Chris was involved with an up and coming songwriter Andre Merritt. So when Chris started going in calling people ‘gay’ and ‘fags’ I just dropped Andre Merritt’s name. I knew it was true when he decided to shut up.”
Chris responded (his tweets were later deleted) to the alleged book saying,
If this book ever hits shelves, the fallout could be very interesting. We'll keep you posted.
Andre 3000 FILMS Jimi Hendrix Biopic + Ne-Yo & Jamie Foxx PARTY In Las Vegas
Andre 3000 is over in Dublin filming the Jimi Hendrix biopic. Get deets on the film and see Ne-Yo and Jamie Foxx hosting a pool party in Las Vegas.
Andre Benjamin aka Andre 3000 (who celebrated his 38th birthday yesterday) began filming All Is by My Side, a Jimi Hendrix biopic, today in Dublin, Ireland.
Andre 3000 wants fans to be surprised by the film so he avoided photos so everything will be fresh when it hits the screen.
But when it hits the screen, don't expect to hear Jimi's original music. Apparently, the estate is not on board with the biopic. The estate released a statement saying,
"Experience Hendrix CEO Janie Hendrix, sister of Jimi Hendrix, and the EH board have not ruled out a 'biopic' in the future though producing partners would, out of necessity, have to involve the company from the inception of any such film project if it is to include original Jimi Hendrix music or composition."
Andre 3000 will likely have to record covers of all Jimi songs used in the film. But hey.....isn't that what we wanted anyway?
And in Las Vegas...........
Yesterday, Ne-Yo hosted Beach Life's Rehab Pool in the Hard Rock Hotel.
He tweeted, Chill day in my hometown Vegas, sipping @Malibu_Red at Rehab Pool. Life is good! #Compound - R.E.D 9/18/12
He also paraded around with a bevy of beauties and got the crowd hyped.
Oscar-winner Jamie Foxx was the party's other host and he also hyped the crowd.
Photos via PacificCoastNews.com/WENN.com/Cassi Thomas
CONCERT FAB: Bobby Brown ROCKS OUT At 30 Rock For "TODAY" Show Concert
Bobby Brown hit 30 Rock Plaza this morning for a special Memorial Day Concert on The "TODAY" Show. Watch the clips inside.....
Though his voice was not up to par, Bobby Brown put in a good faith effort this morning during a concert for The TODAY Show. He performed his new track "Don't Let Me Die" "Every Little Step" and "My Perogative."
TODAY's concert was one of his most high profile appearances on network television since the passing of Whitney Houston. During the interview with Peter Alexander, Bobby denied that his new track was about Whitney Houston saying it was about his fiancee Alicia. He added his new album is about being clean from drugs (7 years) and the blessings in his life.
He said he isn't doing reality tv now and is focused on his new album The Masterpiece.
Also, NBC correspondent Tamron Hall tweeted, Hanging with @todayshow fam this morn! The king of R&B Bobby Brown is here and his fans are already lined up waiting !!!@kingbobbybrown
Watch "Don't Let Me Die" here:
Watch "Every Little Step" here:…
Continue© 2012 Created by The Fam.
